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Old 01-16-2013, 05:51 AM
 
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He was happy that a certified crazy chick left him rather than having to do it himself. Since when are women entitled to friends? Left stuff at his place after only a few weeks? Psycho.
LOL. I concur. You slept with him in a span of a week? complete with leaving your stuff at his place? If you dont wanna lose contact with him then why did you dump him? it seems you only use that so u can get a reaction and when he did not give u the reaction u expected you went psycho. wow.
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Old 01-16-2013, 06:05 AM
 
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You sound self-centered. The dude got dumped. News flash, he's not trying to help you or be nice.

I don't understand people leaving personal belongings with people they've just been seeing for a few weeks.. what did you expect was going to happen when you broke up?

Reminds me of my ex leaving all kinds of **** at my place, to then move to a different continent and ask me to mail it for her. Uh, yeah, sure. I'll get right on it.

Holding a grudge FTW.
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Old 01-16-2013, 06:13 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Good call.

OP are you conflicted because he doesn't want to be your friend or because you can't understand why he doesn't want to be your friend (i.e, you think you're too awesome to be rejected). If the latter, that's your ego coming in to play.

You've got to accept, not everyone is going to like you or how you have presented yourself to them.
Yep. ^^^
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Old 01-16-2013, 06:17 AM
 
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why would you even spend the holidays with someone who you've just met?

introducing him to your fam after a few weeks? how is that not taking things very serious, ofcourse he's confused
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Old 01-16-2013, 06:20 AM
 
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We just invited because we feel bad he was alone. Common courtesy
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Old 01-16-2013, 06:41 AM
 
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How is that common courtesy? Why would you want to invite someone over to spend time with you during the holidays when your family is there? It's one of the biggest and most obvious platforms to introduce a "serious" partner to....

No, you are wrong.

If I was dating a girl and she asked me to spend the holidays with her and her fam, I'd (rightfully) think she was ready to move in with me.
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Old 01-16-2013, 02:30 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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We just invited because we feel bad he was alone. Common courtesy

i would do this too, not because i wanted to be serious or rush things but i couldnt stand the thought of not inviting someone i cared about to spend the holidays with me known they were alone. you were thoughtful and theres nothing wrong with that
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Old 01-16-2013, 04:12 PM
 
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I know that, but I just feel we could be like best friends. Like I could give him some advice about what not to do in a relationship.

I am friends will all my exe´s and they just love me. It is just so immature.
What are you, his mother? Who are you to natter on about giving him advice about what not to do in a relationship? Did he ask for your advice? No? Then leave him alone. He's a grown man. If he wants nothing to do with out after a break-up, that's his decision.
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Old 01-18-2013, 08:39 AM
 
Location: Waterworld
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It sounds like you are more hurt than he is about the break up honestly and cant get over the fact that he is over you now.

But from your attitude on this thread, after you broke up with me, I probably wouldn't continue to be your friend either. You sound like an egotistical, better than thou, high maintenance high schooler.
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