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Only way to find somebody is to get lucky through a social circle situation. Meeting somebody in public is very very difficult
You've already had 1/2-dozen threads about how to meet women. You know what to do, you're just not willing to do it. Don't drag us through this again.
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Originally Posted by brahmabull117
I was being sarcastic in that every woman on the net claims to love approaching men yet in real life, I've asked about 300 men on this issue and none of them ever get approached by somebody they might be interested in
BINGO! They get approached, but not by anyone they find attractive. But they do get approached.
Dont approach women at a bar, not because its too difficult, but because her defenses are way up, since if she is any attractive, youre likely drunk douche #10 to hit on her that night. Daytime, public approaches are much more succesful since the woman isnt with 5 of her girlfriends, and her defenses arent as high. Also, at bars and clubs people tend to use alcohol as a social lubricant. In rare instances, it can get a guy a little success if used in moderation, but it teaches him absolutely nothing about his approach or about male/female dynamics in general. Seperate yourself from the crowd and approach sober.
I disagree. Definitely approach women at bars. You will stand out from the other guys if you do it right.
50 guys can approach the girl for all I care. I'll be the one that she remembers.
A woman alone in a bar could be....having a drink? I guess it depends on the bar or the location, but it's really not unusual to see a woman alone in a bar where I work. Waiting for friends, travelling solo or just felt like going out. That's why I go out for a solo drink, anyway.
wow, so he doesn't live in chicago? and he's a bartender not a sales guy? dang so I guess he doesn't make 100000 a yr either..wow
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