Is it possible that I'm too weird for a girlfriend? (dating, women)
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Or is that just another excuse? I know there's weird girls out there too, but I feel like some people are so weird that there's no match for them. And the whole "you just need to find the right girl/guy" excuse doesn't apply to these kind of people. A few people have said I resemble from Kramer from Seinfeld. I know he's a fictional character, but as you know if you watch the show, he was perpetually single and in my opinion it was due to his weirdness. So what do you guys think?
Instead of focusing on the negatives, being weird or whatever it may be, you should turn that around and focus on the positives. What are your good qualities? What do you like about yourself? What do you have to offer a woman in a relationship?
Or maybe focus on why you are "weird"? I had undiagnosed ADD - didn't even suspect until my mid-20s. Once I studied up on it, I realized what many of my more "offputting" habits were and worked on correcting them. I'm pretty social now. My dating life isn't always great, but I'm surrounded by friends. Oh, and if you're "weird," you should totally get a part-time gig in a bookstore. That's where all the fun weird people work. Trust me on this
Other than the fact that Kramer was probably the most charismatic, entertaining, secretly sexy character on Seinfeld, what's your problem? Boy, you should just capitalize on your quirkiness and be thankful you are not a dull clone.
Feelings like this are normal. Most people think they'll never find a good match, yet most do, sometimes several times.
Just keep plugging along. Find something to do that you're really good at. Focus on making genuine friendships and living well. Love will probably find you. Till then, be as happy as you can. A relationship will fill some emotional gaps, perhaps; but you are a complete and worthy soul right now.
Kramer got a LOT of hot women. Did you actully watch the show? Maybe you could earn something from him. He had a ton of confidence and was 100% happy with himself.
Many of those labeled as "weird' are independent thinkers, creative, And have a wicked sense of humor. they are not the 'follow the crowd" types and are proud of it. These traits will be appreciated by many. Be who you are, cause you cannot be anyone else! : )
Just don't yell the n-word from a stage several times.
Haha.. Kramer has moments too.
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