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Old 01-25-2013, 04:56 PM
 
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Can't vouch for Russian Christians, especially after they tell gutturally me they're "Rrrrrrussshian." As for the Romanians and Bulgarian Christians I've met, I would say "affirmative."
I think you're going to find Russian Orthodox people to be of similar character, especially if they come from smaller towns in Russia. That's why I was questioning this.
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Old 01-25-2013, 05:08 PM
 
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And by Gold diggers, I mean women who only take interest in you based on how you can benefit them monetarily. It's really quite strange, I think I'm fairly good looking. I have a decent career, I have really good values and a great head on my shoulder, and I'm really good in bed. I'm not bragging, people have told me this time and time again. So why is it that everytime I deal with a woman for any length of time, she turns out to be some type of bottom feeder. It seems like I go on a date or two, ask a girl how she's doing and I get this response...


"Just a little depressed, my phone bill is due, and I'm not sure how I'm going to pay it"


And then it ensues. Majority of the time, I'm not bothered anymore after that of course. A few times I've actually paid the phone bill, and the woman will go missing very abruptly, and then turn up months later, asking for more money. some may consistently talk to me, or butter me up and then wait for there chance to start asking me for money.

I've been dating for over 10 years, and this is VERY consistent. At first I thought this was just the location I was in. Then I started traveling for work to other cities like NYC and DC. And once again, anytime I'll meet a woman, she ALWAYs turns out to be a gold digger. This can be a woman I meet in a club, at church, on the street randomly, it doesn't seem to matter. I check my body and my clothes, and there is nothing attached to me saying "gold digger". Do any other guys have this problem? Can women offer some perspective?
If you were really as good in bed as you are told, the women would be sticking with you for the lovin' and they'd be paying your bills. Are you flashy? Do you discuss money or other valuable things with people? If you flaunt it, they will come. Think about this. Why do golddiggers constantly attract you?
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Old 02-12-2013, 08:45 AM
 
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And by Gold diggers, I mean women who only take interest in you based on how you can benefit them monetarily. It's really quite strange, I think I'm fairly good looking. I have a decent career, I have really good values and a great head on my shoulder, and I'm really good in bed. I'm not bragging, people have told me this time and time again. So why is it that everytime I deal with a woman for any length of time, she turns out to be some type of bottom feeder. It seems like I go on a date or two, ask a girl how she's doing and I get this response...


"Just a little depressed, my phone bill is due, and I'm not sure how I'm going to pay it"


And then it ensues. Majority of the time, I'm not bothered anymore after that of course. A few times I've actually paid the phone bill, and the woman will go missing very abruptly, and then turn up months later, asking for more money. some may consistently talk to me, or butter me up and then wait for there chance to start asking me for money.

I've been dating for over 10 years, and this is VERY consistent. At first I thought this was just the location I was in. Then I started traveling for work to other cities like NYC and DC. And once again, anytime I'll meet a woman, she ALWAYs turns out to be a gold digger. This can be a woman I meet in a club, at church, on the street randomly, it doesn't seem to matter. I check my body and my clothes, and there is nothing attached to me saying "gold digger". Do any other guys have this problem? Can women offer some perspective?
Within a hour I am told that their birthday is coming up, SOON.
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Old 02-12-2013, 10:43 PM
 
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I attract (for want of a more accurate description) deadbeat females too sometimes. Every nice guy I know attracts the leeches. Its gotten to the point where I can spot them after one red flag. One code word is use of the term roommate as in " You want me to work? You want me to be a roommate?" The only kind of woman I ever heard use this word THAT way was a freeloading deadbeat golddigger and I heard it from five women, all of whom were golddiggers.

Vultures usually hover around before they flock down on you.

Read the profiles if you do the singles sites, the truth is usually right there in the profile. Watch out for gaudy looking pictures but the real lowdown is in the way she describes herself. If she checks off in the profile that her job is "other", that her income is "rather not say" combined with she wants a man for casual dating and travel partner then that woman will get no reply from me even if she writes me, but those vultures hover around and wait for me to contact them but I don't care if they click my profile 10 times, let em knock themselves out, let em dream, they ain't getting any contact from me.

IRL I sometimes come into contact with younger girls, maybe in their twenties. Maybe I seem to fit some sort of profile but the young girls find out fast that they read me wrong. Maybe I am supposed to crave girls that young but I don't. Maybe I look married and frustrated. No I'm single and frustrated...............If I were married I'd be fulfilled but my wife would work and she'd be my age. The girls in their twenties, remember what I said about vultures, they test me with loaded questions but they don't swoop in because I answer their questions in the wrong way so they go on to the next guy.

Hoping my post did the OP some good.
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Old 02-12-2013, 11:40 PM
 
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I'm not counseling anyone to say the following but if any man ever gets one of those deadbeat golddigging insects on his skin, trying to suck his blood, one thing you can consider saying if you want to get that insect off your arm.................

"Money? You right, baby, I got plenty of money. I'm loaded. But I'm going to let my money buy me a good looking, sexy woman. What do I want with you?"

It might be smarter to use this on a singles site instead of in person.
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Old 02-13-2013, 04:54 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Why do you pick poor girls if you've got so much going for yourself?
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Old 02-13-2013, 08:14 PM
 
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I attract (for want of a more accurate description) deadbeat females too sometimes. Every nice guy I know attracts the leeches. Its gotten to the point where I can spot them after one red flag. One code word is use of the term roommate as in " You want me to work? You want me to be a roommate?" The only kind of woman I ever heard use this word THAT way was a freeloading deadbeat golddigger and I heard it from five women, all of whom were golddiggers.

Vultures usually hover around before they flock down on you.

Read the profiles if you do the singles sites, the truth is usually right there in the profile. Watch out for gaudy looking pictures but the real lowdown is in the way she describes herself. If she checks off in the profile that her job is "other", that her income is "rather not say" combined with she wants a man for casual dating and travel partner then that woman will get no reply from me even if she writes me, but those vultures hover around and wait for me to contact them but I don't care if they click my profile 10 times, let em knock themselves out, let em dream, they ain't getting any contact from me.

IRL I sometimes come into contact with younger girls, maybe in their twenties. Maybe I seem to fit some sort of profile but the young girls find out fast that they read me wrong. Maybe I am supposed to crave girls that young but I don't. Maybe I look married and frustrated. No I'm single and frustrated...............If I were married I'd be fulfilled but my wife would work and she'd be my age. The girls in their twenties, remember what I said about vultures, they test me with loaded questions but they don't swoop in because I answer their questions in the wrong way so they go on to the next guy.

Hoping my post did the OP some good.
I guess once again my wisdom is the last word on one of these threads.
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Old 02-13-2013, 09:01 PM
 
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Kanye West - Gold Digger ft. Jamie Foxx - YouTube
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Old 02-13-2013, 10:14 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Why do you pick poor girls if you've got so much going for yourself?
This is the $50,000 question.
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Old 02-13-2013, 10:14 PM
 
Location: southern california
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well if u r like me i cruise a lot and complain of property management issues and chest pains when in the hot tub. that seems to work.
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