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Old 01-25-2013, 09:16 AM
 
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Man up and apologize to both of them. Over and over. Don't try to explain it or justify it. Just say what you did was wrong, you regret it, and you will try to learn from it and be a better person. You probably screwed the pooch for good with Sally but apologize anyway. Try to repair your friendship w Lisa.

In the future, mask the details when discussing a situation or relationship and simply leave pics out of it.
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Old 01-25-2013, 09:18 AM
 
Location: Petticoat Junction
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you posted pics of someone you had no right to post online and got what you deserved. I hope neither one of them forgives you.

This ^^^^. Bud, you have a serious lack-of-self-awareness problem. You don't even know what you don't know.


Hope the forum thread was worth it.
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Old 01-25-2013, 09:28 AM
 
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Ugh. My ex did this to me years ago. He's a classic car collector and on several car forums. He knew I knew about the forums, but I guess he didn't think I would actually look at them. In a thread about the guys' wives/gfs, there was a picture of me that was meant for him only.

I bet he'll tell you I absolutely never forgave him for that, and he'd be right. Your friend would be wise to lose you.
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Old 01-25-2013, 09:37 AM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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What's the point of having an online persona different than real life? The OP is probably more like the online persona in real life than he believes.

Apologize to her, don't use any excuses and don't expect to hear from her or Lisa for a while.
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Old 01-25-2013, 11:15 AM
 
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Looks like OP has a history of this kind of thing...

He was told it was inappropriate to post photos and private conversations some time ago. Is he just irredeemably stupid or a total *******?

Will this girl hook up with me?

ETA that is a most entertaining thread and worth a revisit. The Duck is especially hilarious and spot-on.

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Old 01-25-2013, 11:22 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Man up and apologize to both of them. Over and over. Don't try to explain it or justify it. Just say what you did was wrong, you regret it, and you will try to learn from it and be a better person. You probably screwed the pooch for good with Sally but apologize anyway. Try to repair your friendship w Lisa.
Like I said, the only way out is through serious groveling and humility. If you can't manage that, the only other option is to disappear out of the lives of both women, never to be seen or heard from again.
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Old 01-25-2013, 12:37 PM
 
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Bad form. Apologize. That's all you can do. The rest is up to her.
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Old 01-25-2013, 12:54 PM
 
Location: Australia
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badger

Badger is to bother. Persistently. On and on. Without stop. Relentlessly. Over and over. Endlessly. It comes from the name of that chipmunk-like animal that burrows into the ground.


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Old 01-27-2013, 09:43 AM
 
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Ive been thinking about this, and here is what doesn't make sense to me: This girl has pictures of herself in underwear on facebook and reddit, both are which PUBLIC forums.

So its okay if she posts pictures online of her in her underwear for people to gawk at, but if I post a picture of her clothed, that's bad?

Am I the only one who sees the disconnect here?
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Old 01-27-2013, 10:17 AM
 
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Yes. It's ok if she posts underwear shots and wrong if you post clothed pics. Yes. You're the only one seeing a disconnect. Because its about HER choice. she can post any pic she wants of herself, say anything she wants about herself. That does not give you any rights or justifications for you to post pics and say things about her.
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