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Old 02-01-2013, 02:40 PM
 
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But if you're a bisexual man and you're attracted to men anyway, why not just stick to men if most women aren't interested?
I really can't identify so I don't know. It's not like there are an overabundance of Bi men out there to discuss it. And depending where they are at in their Bi-ness (Kinsey scale) they might bounce back and forth between men and women. I'm sure Monogamy varies greatly amongst that population too so they might just bounce back and forth day to day with different people. Man rear one day VJ the next.
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Old 02-01-2013, 02:42 PM
 
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The truth is often a harsh mistress. It isn't for the faint of heart.
I usually really like your intelligent posts and insights...but you went overboard this time IMO.
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Old 02-01-2013, 02:45 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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But if you're a bisexual man and you're attracted to men anyway, why not just stick to men if most women aren't interested?
Because love doesn't really work that way. You can't really pick who you fall in love with.
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Old 02-01-2013, 02:54 PM
 
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I don't get topics like this & I can't understand why this is such an issue.

People should be allowed to marry whoever they want regardless of thier sex. I think it's strange that the majority of women who are Bisexual are more accepted then bisexual men are, even those who says that two people of the same sex who are in a realtionship is a sin, it's still OK for two women to have sex because said person believes deep down that it's a turn on.
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Old 02-01-2013, 03:04 PM
 
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People should be allowed to marry whoever they want regardless of thier sex. I think it's strange that the majority of women who are Bisexual are more accepted then bisexual men are, even those who says that two people of the same sex who are in a realtionship is a sin, it's still OK for two women to have sex because said person believes deep down that it's a turn on.
Men only find it a turn on if they find the women attractive. I think bisexual women are more accepted because lots of men fantasize about being with two women at once and also because there are no specific STDs associated with lesbian sex.

I've watched gay male porn and "Q ueer as Folk" is one of my all-time favorite shows, so it's really not an issue of me being disgusted by men having sex with men. So yes, I would say it's mostly just fear of disease. Call it irrational if you want.
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Old 02-01-2013, 03:08 PM
 
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Men only find it a turn on if they find the women attractive. I think bisexual women are more accepted because lots of men fantasize about being with two women at once and also because there are no specific STDs associated with lesbian sex.

Those who are bisexual can still get an STD just as easy as someone who is gay or staight can. And your right said women have to be attractive but it's still a double standard either way.
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Old 02-01-2013, 03:11 PM
 
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Men only find it a turn on if they find the women attractive. I think bisexual women are more accepted because lots of men fantasize about being with two women at once and also because there are no specific STDs associated with lesbian sex.

I've watched gay male porn and "Q ueer as Folk" is one of my all-time favorite shows, so it's really not an issue of me being disgusted by men having sex with men. So yes, I would say it's mostly just fear of disease. Call it irrational if you want.
"Men only find it a turn on if they find the women attractive."
True, most men usually think Jessica Beal and Jessica Alba. I usually think Rosie O'Donell and Ellen
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Old 02-01-2013, 03:12 PM
 
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"Men only find it a turn on if they find the women attractive."
True, most men usually think Jessica Beal and Jessica Alba. I usually think Rosie O'Donell and Ellen
I think Ellen is cute. Rosie, not so much.
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Old 02-01-2013, 03:13 PM
 
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I think Ellen is cute. Rosie, not so much.

That depends on how butch you like them!
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Old 02-01-2013, 03:16 PM
 
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That depends on how butch you like them!
Soft butch is my preference.
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