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Old 01-27-2013, 07:27 PM
 
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It seems you expect your ideal woman (per your threads) to accept what you consider your major "flaw." So what "flaw" will you accept in her?

Try someone overweight, say 25 lbs. or so. Your dating pool will open up so much, you won't know what hit you.
I've been attracted to many overweight women in the past. They generally are insecure about dating a shorter man because they feel it makes them seem even bigger. They want a tall, or thick guy to even them out.

 
Old 01-27-2013, 07:40 PM
 
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Short guys with big personalities get play ALL the time. No woman wants to date a brooding, whining man with no self esteem and no one will ever love you if you don't love yourself. OP, I highly suggest you seek help from a psychologist or therapist.
 
Old 01-27-2013, 07:52 PM
 
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Short guys with big personalities get play ALL the time. No woman wants to date a brooding, whining man with no self esteem and no one will ever love you if you don't love yourself. OP, I highly suggest you seek help from a psychologist or therapist.
If you're brooding, whining and lack self esteem, you will not get anywhere when dating. Height doesn't matter when it comes to dating. For those who need to see it to actually see it, well, that will not happen.
 
Old 01-27-2013, 07:55 PM
 
Location: socal
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Short guys with big personalities get play ALL the time. No woman wants to date a brooding, whining man with no self esteem and no one will ever love you if you don't love yourself. OP, I highly suggest you seek help from a psychologist or therapist.
im gonna have to agree with this. People compensate for traits that are "lacking" all the time in the dating world.
 
Old 01-27-2013, 07:55 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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I dated a man who was a little on the short side. He was 5'6". Whats wrong with that?
 
Old 01-27-2013, 07:59 PM
 
Location: Sacramento
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what if i'm 5'2'', yet posses a 10'' penis? could this tip the scale in my favour, as it were?
 
Old 01-27-2013, 08:02 PM
 
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The answer to this is to be the best possible version of yourself. Happy and confident, accomplished and intelligent, and you WILL meet women who are attracted to you. I would bet the farm that you have driven some away by putting off damaged/bitter vibes.

I dated as a 20lbs overweight female who didn't make much money (at that time.) I shouldn't have been a catch, but had no problem dating, because I didn't carry much baggage about stuff. I was just ME, with tons of plusses that outweight the minuses.
 
Old 01-27-2013, 08:18 PM
 
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Well they have these sites for racism and homophobia and many media outlets have congratulated the owners for highlighting a problem. I haven't heard anything about heightism, so I want to highlight this issue. Is that so wrong?
Um....yeah? You are allowing stupid people making stupid comments to give you a reason to consider yourself a failure. If you don't see the absurdity of that, then I assure you, your height is not the problem.
 
Old 01-27-2013, 08:19 PM
 
Location: Where Dance Music comes first
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Stop posting nonsense.......
I can manage any thread, be it about short guys or paying for dates or interracial whatever, but it does get annoying having to listen to the same posters constantly repeat their schtick.

An influx of newbies is always a breath of fresh air on CD-relationships.
 
Old 01-27-2013, 08:21 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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This isn't the first time I've seen this... think it might be a massive troll on twitter. In any case the fact you're using the opinions of dumb little teenage/college girls on twitter to support your argument shows how insecure you are.
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