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Old 11-03-2007, 03:38 PM
 
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Well, ugly, 17, and living in Arkansas..... He probably wouldn't care that she's married....
....you're so BAD
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Old 11-03-2007, 03:52 PM
 
Location: Oxygen Ln. AZ
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I hope he meets a nice, mature young woman soon. He will have a better life without that nutball trying to ruin it. She feeds on misery and is self distructive on top of it. She is also playing with fire with an underaged boy...perhaps jail time in her future? Poor kid.
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Old 11-03-2007, 04:46 PM
 
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.......both?
Eeewwwwwww.....
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Old 11-03-2007, 05:00 PM
 
Location: San Diego, CA
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IMO Lostsouls and his young wife are neither suited for marriage at this point in their lives. I think both need to be in individual counseling and some time for growth and maturity. Mrs. Lostsoul should also understand that fooling around with a 17 year old young man could land her in jail.

A relationship full of betrayal, threats, snooping, games, and manipulation. Once again, my advice is to move on Lostsouls and remain in counseling.
I plan on remaining in counseling.

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And this 17 year old my not even know she's married. So don't go kickin his arse. You reckon she's going to see a 17 year old...or his Dad? Hmmmm....
He does know she's married. Maybe he's thinking he can score with an older woman? Who knows.

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I'm thinking that he is going to start ending his posts with...

LIVE and LOVE WELL.
funny.

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Old 11-04-2007, 03:22 PM
 
Location: San Diego, CA
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Well I've discovered more lies she's told me. She told her mother about the 17-year-old from the beginning. She told me her mother didn't know. My trust in her is completely lost, and now my love for her is starting to fade. I still love the memories, they were great, but she is a screwed up little girl. There's no way Im taking her back.

I hate how she made this whole situation out to be my fault. None of this is my fault. I've made some mistakes, but none of them, absolutely none of them would cause a loss of love or understanding between partners. It just shows how immature and young she is. Dont get me wrong, I'm young, I've been sometimes very immature through this crisis in my life, but it in no way equals her level of immaturity.

I think that's about it. Peace everyone.
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Old 11-04-2007, 03:28 PM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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Quit digging up horror stories. Just start taking steps to be rid of her. The damage has been done. No sense in you suffering anymore pain than what you've already got on your plate.
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Old 11-04-2007, 05:05 PM
 
Location: Zebulon, NC
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Just remember that the opposite of love is not hate - it's apathy.
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Old 11-05-2007, 06:35 AM
 
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I am sorry lost. When this happens a little piece of you dies. But a new, stronger piece grows in it's place.
You are a kind, good person - spend time with your family and all of your great friends!
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Old 11-05-2007, 08:02 AM
 
Location: Virginia
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Well I've discovered more lies she's told me. She told her mother about the 17-year-old from the beginning. She told me her mother didn't know. My trust in her is completely lost, and now my love for her is starting to fade. I still love the memories, they were great, but she is a screwed up little girl. There's no way Im taking her back.

I hate how she made this whole situation out to be my fault. None of this is my fault. I've made some mistakes, but none of them, absolutely none of them would cause a loss of love or understanding between partners. It just shows how immature and young she is. Dont get me wrong, I'm young, I've been sometimes very immature through this crisis in my life, but it in no way equals her level of immaturity.

I think that's about it. Peace everyone.
Thought she seemed to be overplaying the incident with her mother..... This definately explains THAT crap....

All this, of course, means that her oh so sweet mother was "in the know" the whole time... Hopefully this underscores which side she was on if there was ever a doubt....

Once again, sorry to hear all of this...
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Old 11-05-2007, 08:27 AM
 
Location: San Diego, CA
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Quit digging up horror stories. Just start taking steps to be rid of her. The damage has been done. No sense in you suffering anymore pain than what you've already got on your plate.
Yeah I'm done with it.

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Thought she seemed to be overplaying the incident with her mother..... This definately explains THAT crap....

All this, of course, means that her oh so sweet mother was "in the know" the whole time... Hopefully this underscores which side she was on if there was ever a doubt....
Yeah, she really did play me. and I was stupid enough to think her mother might object to fooling around with a 17-year-old.

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I am sorry lost. When this happens a little piece of you dies. But a new, stronger piece grows in it's place.
You are a kind, good person - spend time with your family and all of your great friends!
I can already feel the stronger piece growing.

and no, I dont hate anyone. I still love her, But no trust = no relationship. Not even friendship. She's just another ex now. My list is starting to get long, ugh .
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