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I know it's gonna sound psycho but I want to find the meanest way to break up with someone who doesn't love me...
I know you're probably gonna say that I should be better than him, and be gentle and what not, but this guy deserves it a 100%.
Ever since I've met him he's made my life a living hell, I can't count all the tears I cried because of him...
I know I'm the idiot because I fell for this as*hole but you don't choose who to love...
He cheated on me with every girl on sight, treated me wrong, I gave him everything but he never did anything for me, all the things he said were never true, all the promises he made weren't worth a damn...
And even though I still love him, it's time to stop this.I'm not going to waste another year on him.I'm better off alone.
He never loved me so don't worry about the "hurting his feelings" part (that is, if he had any).
If he doesn't love me, the least I can do is to make him hate me.
I want to break up from him in the meanest way possible...something that will break his huge ego for good...
But how do I do that?
I know I sound mean, but I just hate him soooooooooo much right now...
He has hurt me so much, I just can't let him get away with it...
Kill him with kindness. It's not mean spirited, but you shouldn't be stooping down to his level anyway. Leave him and immediately cut off all contact with him.
the more games you play, the more the hate will consume you.
Just dump him and walk away. NEVER speak to him again, never think about him again, never talk about him again. The best way to get back at the miserable guy; Live a HAPPY life. When you are ready, devote your energy to someone who will treat you well.
And considering you HATE this guy, you will not be ready to date for a while.
good luck, and remember, we have ALL been there at some point or another, and taking it out on the next guy is the worst thing you can do. Don't let that bad guy control your actions for the next ten years of your life.
Hatred consumes you from the inside. It ruins your peace of mind and you become a person you don't like eventually.
What you do is put on your big girl pants and walk away with your head held high and a renewed zest for learning to love a new life filled with freedom, peace and happiness.
He's a dirt bag who is completely unworthy of any of your emotions, including both love and hate.
I've tried to do that.
All the time we've been together, doesn't matter how bad he treated me, I never said a word.
I SAW how he cheated on me right in front of my eyes but never accused him of anything.
Never said a word. I always told myself not to stoop to his level and that I'm better than that, but that only made me bitter. Because the better I was treating him, the worse he was treating me.
I just feel like I can't stay silent anymore.
Like Miranda Lambert's song "Mama's Broken Heart" says:
"Can't get revenge and keep a spotless reputation. Sometimes revenge is a choice you gotta make."
Just leave him, find someone who loves you like you deserve, get married (optional), have a family (optional), and have a good life that you deserve. Him knowing that you're happy with your life without him will be revenge enough. Actually, he doesn't even need to know, you just need to know it.
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