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Old 01-30-2013, 07:56 PM
 
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I should be doing something productive but this seemed like more fun.

Guys, let's say you aren't doing anything on a Saturday night and your friend says "hey, I'm going to my friend's birthday party. You should come." So you tag along even though you've never met the birthday girl. (I don't know why. You just do). As she is also the hostess and has a house full of guests, you don't really get to interact with her too much especially since you and your friend leave about halfway through the party because he abruptly decides he's ready to go. Unbeknownst to you, your friend wants to set you up with his friend, who is aware of this but did not know you were coming to the party.

A couple of days later, the friend invites you to join him, her and a friend who couldn't make it to the party to brunch the following weekend. You agree to go but at the last minute your friend cancels brunch. Not postpone-outright cancels.

It's been a week since you met the girl. If you were interested, at this point, would you ask your friend to reschedule something or would you find a way to contact her on your own?
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Old 01-30-2013, 08:05 PM
 
Location: Arizona
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I would ask the friend to reschedule something so I could meet the girl. I don't like being left hanging if you're telling me if you wanted to set me up with someone.
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Old 01-30-2013, 08:13 PM
 
Location: Bellingham, WA
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You lost me at the part where I actually attended a party.
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Old 01-30-2013, 08:16 PM
 
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Unbeknownst to you, your friend wants to set you up with his friend, who is aware of this but did not know you were coming to the party.
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I would ask the friend to reschedule something so I could meet the girl. I don't like being left hanging if you're telling me if you wanted to set me up with someone.
But you don't know this is a set up attempt. Your friend only told her.
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Old 01-30-2013, 08:18 PM
 
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Neither. I'd take this as she isn't interested in me and tell my friend to stop trying to get me to meet this girl who doesn't seem interested.
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Old 01-30-2013, 08:19 PM
 
Location: Pa
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After all that if I was a dude I would be tired of trying.
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Old 01-30-2013, 08:24 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Why doesn't the friend want the girl? What's wrong with her? lol
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Old 01-30-2013, 08:29 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Why doesn't the friend want the girl? What's wrong with her? lol
Good point.
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Old 01-30-2013, 08:38 PM
 
Location: Earth
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I would wait until I was out of high school and then handle my own meets and dates like an adult...
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Old 01-30-2013, 08:43 PM
 
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Maybe the girl doesn't want the friend either. lol

Friend is a serial dater: as soon as he arranges to meet Girl A, he's on the hunt for Girl B. He admittedly loves the thrill of the chase.
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