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Total fiction...for me! Why women would want the pretty bad guy that treats them like $h!t, I'll never know. I'll take the humble, shy, nerd who treats me like a queen any day...because I deserve it!
Last edited by Forever Blue; 01-30-2013 at 11:38 PM..
Fact. Just a little, a little wild side to the man. Everyone likes a little bit of a challenge- note I said a little bit, not a womanizer or a hard drug user, etc. Not really dangerous where she's going to get in trouble. Just not always predictiable
I think it's the "princess syndrome" tired of being "the good little princess" they are attracted to the losers to distance themselves from expected norms,,,to tell everyone she has her own identity.
also, like a wet stray cat in the rain- they will take it in,,, on good intentions of helping it out...
also....with a loser, the bar isnt set very high-she can feel a bit more liberated, going against the expected norms,,, say her hair is a mess in the wind...who cares??
also, the losers, have very little self-worth, so they dont mind being rejected, so they at least ask the girl out, where-as a nice guy, who may fear rejection from the whole species of woman, will hesitate.
also,,,,many kids grow up in a tensive environment, and thats the norm, so woman will seek familiarity- thinking she gets bored easily, and always has to kick it up a notch , to stir things up, to enjoy herself
bad boy losers feed off this.
nice guys should learn from the bad boys- be more bold, act like you have nothing to lose.... usually woman learn... they will get burnt... and many good woman do get burnt,,and a nice guy will pay for that in the future,,,or worse, she may switch teams,,and do away with men altogether...thinking all men are a-holes
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