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Old 02-01-2013, 10:31 PM
 
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And they're also someone's daughter. You should be ashamed of yourself.
That is a fair point.

I can only say that these are women by every measure who are incredibly mature for their age. Not for a moment does it feel that I'm with a child. And no one is twisting her arm. What's more, I know she enjoys herself.

If she instead had married me, should I still be ashamed of myself? Is it just the age? Sex under any circumstances is dirty? If she went home with me from a bar? Is it just the pay?

 
Old 02-01-2013, 10:33 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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Wow, I guess I wrote that long post to the OP for no reasom
 
Old 02-01-2013, 10:33 PM
 
Location: Military City, USA.
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he's paying for it, he makes the rules.

if he wants a younger woman thats his choice not yours
Yea, it is his choice, but he is using his little head to make that choice. I would make a comment about Thailand, but it would get me banned, so I won't.
 
Old 02-01-2013, 10:35 PM
 
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I've been at this awhile and am a bit past that. After my first time. You bet! It was surreal, overwhelming! But it was also so much more normal and natural than I ever expected it could be. The women who do this are absolutely amazing. They love men. They love sex. They show genuine tenderness. And they are incredibly giving. They are simply amazing.
Are you somehow running an internet campaign to encourage more 'sugar daddy seeking' college girls? It came to mind because there was news report within past few weeks about the number of college age women participating in such 'arrangements' to pay for college.

BTW, my recollection from psychological studies is that the vast majority of women who engage in voluntary prostitution due so because they DISLIKE men. They compartmentalize and desensitize real 'mutual connection' with a fal$e p$uedo de$ire to get ahead by giving it.

Interested to hear what she says if you asked her to quit and become your dedicated squeeze sans monetary payment high 'rental rates'. LOL

Some threads have such great entertainment value....
 
Old 02-01-2013, 10:35 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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couldn't disagree more. his advice to a desperate 50 year old midlife crisis case is to go clubbing. that's is awful advice, even if it's wrapped up in a long-winded post.
Actually, branh's Ultimate Solution (lol) is pretty much what most people have been advising him to do; get off the metered sex and meet some real prospects in the real world. In time, he could get lucky and find a spouse who's genuinely loving and can cook a mean chateaubriand for the boss and business partners. Right now, he's spinning his wheels.

Branh's post was good because he's been there, done that, re: the OP's current situation.
 
Old 02-01-2013, 10:38 PM
 
Location: Sydney, Australia
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That is a fair point.

I can only say that these are women by every measure who are incredibly mature for their age. Not for a moment does it feel that I'm with a child. And no one is twisting her arm. What's more, I know she enjoys herself.

If she instead had married me, should I still be ashamed of myself? Is it just the age? Sex under any circumstances is dirty? If she went home with me from a bar? Is it just the pay?
Unless you are Hugh Hefner mate, no 22 year old (apparently stunningly beautiful) woman would want to spend their days with a bloke, 30 years their senior. Stop living in la la land.

Also if you actually gave two F**ks about her, you would want to see a young girl like her meet a guy similar in age to do all the things in life you can't offer her. If you genuinely cared for her (as opposed to screwing her all the time, and paying her for the service), you would stop treating her like a *****.
 
Old 02-01-2013, 10:39 PM
 
Location: City of Angels
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Actually, branh's Ultimate Solution (lol) is pretty much what most people have been advising him to do; get off the metered sex and meet some real prospects in the real world. In time, he could get lucky and find a spouse who's genuinely loving and can cook a mean chateaubriand for the boss and business partners. Right now, he's spinning his wheels.

Branh's post was good because he's been there, done that, as far as the OP's current situation.
in no way does it apply to the OP's situation. not once has the OP stated that he is looking for love (in fact he's repeatedly conveyed dismay at falling in love). he is looking to have sex with beautiful young women. P4P is his best option.
 
Old 02-01-2013, 10:44 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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For the record. I started seeing escorts when I got divorced. I just wanted some great sex with beautiful women. If I fall in love again and get married again some day, great. But after a long bad marriage, that was the last thing that I wanted for a time.
This is actually what he said. He wasn't ready for dating at the time. That was then. This is now. He seems to have recovered from the bad marriage, at least. And he's not going to fall in love while he's infatuated with Ms. Metered Maid.
 
Old 02-01-2013, 10:47 PM
 
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if you truly felt that way you wouldn't respond to the detractors. but those are the ONLY people you are responding to, so it's pretty clear you're just here to rile people up. just saying.
I didn't really see too many fans jumping up. And what should I be doing, high-fiving anyone who is alright with this. Would that really make you all warm and fuzzy inside? It is what it is. Obviously it will create controversy but that doesn't mean I have an alterior motive other than to talk about it. There is an entire world that many people know little to nothing about. It is so unlike what i imagined. And it is endlessly fascinating.
 
Old 02-01-2013, 10:48 PM
 
Location: Military City, USA.
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For the record. I started seeing escorts when I got divorced. I just wanted some great sex with beautiful women. If I fall in love again and get married again some day, great. But after a long bad marriage, that was the last thing that I wanted for a time. So please people, enough with the psychodrama. This isn't that complicated or hard to understand.

Hot, young, fantastically beautiful women, and great sex. Is that really so hard to understand?
I understand why you are divorced after 25 years. I am happy for your former wife!

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