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Old 02-02-2013, 11:26 AM
 
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so ask her to do stuff without the pay.

 
Old 02-02-2013, 11:28 AM
 
Location: NYC
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Originally Posted by RunWild View Post
Thank you. That is the closest representation of the truth that i've seen yet. She isn't an international model but she does make some extra money modeling. And she makes 5K for a weekend, not just one session. But otherwise I think you're dead on.

I know for a fact that she has a good time. And I know she cares about me but only as a friend. Obviously if I wasn't paying her she wouldn't be there [or so I assume but now wonder a bit]. But people who have never done this just don't understand the interaction that takes place and that many of these women like what they do. And they are the biggest defenders of what I'm saying. You should see how angry they get when we talk about comments like many made in this thread. for us it is like listening to the blind describe color.

She has been pressuring me lately to find another escort that can join us. She likes girls and wants to do a threesome. We did one once before. Amazing!
Who cares? Prostitution has happened since the beginning of time. Pay your money, enjoy the borrowed P... what more is there to say? Is your life this empty, you want to go on and on about it as though you are doing something special? Next you can pay for a threesome? Again? Wow!

This is why I think you are a troll. No one can be this pathetic. Only the truly pathetic would think he is impressing people, shocking people, etc etc with a story that has been done to death for thousands upon thousands of years. Pay with cash, pay with cocoanuts, ask for a 2 for 1 special whatever... your great grandfather is rolling over in his grave out of sheer boredom.
 
Old 02-02-2013, 11:32 AM
 
Location: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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So girls who work with pimps charge less? Shoudn´t be the other way round? I mean, the pimp takes a share of the revenue, so a girl who has no pimp could work for less since all the money goes to her, meanwhile the girl who works with pimps must split the money.
With the pimp, the girls don't control the prices. The pimp is the one who actually speaks for the girl. She has to sell at the price the pimp ask her to sell herself at. The pimp can charge as low as possible, and pocket most of the money. Most women who have pimps are assembly line hookers by the way. It's all about having as many visits in a particular day, so that little money adds up for a pimp. Since the pimp is the one who houses her, pay for the hotel, transportation, food, all of this comes out of what she makes.

For a woman who is independent, she's coming out of pocket herself. It would make very little sense for her not to charge more. If she charged what a stret walker with a pimp charged, she could never actually turn a profit. Independet escorts are much more expensive than prostitutes who have pimps. However due to the fact they have to up their rates higher, they also attract less potential clientale. As a result, they become reliant on regulars more often than a street hooker would.
 
Old 02-02-2013, 11:38 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Sounds like she is GOOD at what she does and you were unable to prevent yourself from getting too attached.
This pretty well sums it up. OP, the ethics of the situation are irrelevant. You originally posted that you had a lovelorn issue here, and wanted advice on how to handle it. But now you seem to have forgotten about all that, and seem to be into championing the cause of girls who finance their way through school as hookers. So, are we done here? You have no question for us anymore? Problem solved?

And btw, she could have easily financed her way through school doing webcam work, without having to actually have sex with anyone she didn't choose to, as in an actual boyfriend. But she doesn't seem to be very good in the bonding department, judging by what you said about her barfly easy pick-up life before she settled on this particular profession.
 
Old 02-02-2013, 11:42 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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This is why I think you are a troll. No one can be this pathetic.
Especially at 50 years old. So naive or needy as to think that the paid sex worker is in love with him.
 
Old 02-02-2013, 11:48 AM
 
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Come on. The fart thread went down but this thread kept going? What were they thinking? LOL
 
Old 02-02-2013, 12:00 PM
 
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Originally Posted by RunWild View Post
Thank you. That is the closest representation of the truth that i've seen yet. She isn't an international model but she does make some extra money modeling. And she makes 5K for a weekend, not just one session. But otherwise I think you're dead on.

I know for a fact that she has a good time. And I know she cares about me but only as a friend. Obviously if I wasn't paying her she wouldn't be there [or so I assume but now wonder a bit]. But people who have never done this just don't understand the interaction that takes place and that many of these women like what they do. And they are the biggest defenders of what I'm saying. You should see how angry they get when we talk about comments like many made in this thread. for us it is like listening to the blind describe color.

She has been pressuring me lately to find another escort that can join us. She likes girls and wants to do a threesome. We did one once before. Amazing!

So is she a contributor on this forum, or you just comment her the comments you get here? It would be great to read her side of the story, maybe she could post here?

I hope you find the right woman for the 3 some, but don´t get in love with her too, it's complicated enough with one girl as it is, lol.
 
Old 02-02-2013, 12:00 PM
 
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Be careful here. I am usually the one who sees the good in people so I have a hard time believing someone is BSing someone else. However, she blew off the other guy who started to fall in love and not you. My first thought is she needs the money more now. Sorry if that's cold. Be very careful. Good luck.
I truly believe that she has a good heart, but she is young and the money is a serious temptation. I allow for all possibilities.

Something about the women who really like this that that most people just don't get. They are by nature caregivers. Most of the men are damaged themselves [bad marriage or whatever] and the women are in their own minds, helping them. The recognize that there are a lot of men who just need some affection. It isn't even unusual for a client to spend the entire session just talking, and sometimes even crying. I haven't seen it yet but I'm told the movie, The Sessions, tries to address this subject in a factual manner.
 
Old 02-02-2013, 12:01 PM
 
Location: Western Colorado
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I didn't read all 23 pages of replies, but she's an ESCORT. A professional designed to get more money out of you. That's what she does for a living. I'm sure you are "in love" with her, along with her other 200 customers.
 
Old 02-02-2013, 12:13 PM
 
Location: Round Rock, Texas
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I truly believe that she has a good heart, but she is young and the money is a serious temptation. I allow for all possibilities.

Something about the women who really like this that that most people just don't get. They are by nature caregivers. Most of the men are damaged themselves [bad marriage or whatever] and the women are in their own minds, helping them. The recognize that there are a lot of men who just need some affection. It isn't even unusual for a client to spend the entire session just talking, and sometimes even crying. I haven't seen it yet but I'm told the movie, The Sessions, tries to address this subject in a factual manner.
Are you serious?? They are not caregivers. They are not your mother, your sister, or even your lover. They are PROS. It is all a professional illusion. It is a wellcrafted illusion to make you feel good. The fact that you're so emotionally damaged just makes their job easier and guarantees them a constant flow of money. Everything that a prostitute--erm escort--gives you is not reality. Of course everything is going to be perfection...the pros don't have to deal with a lot of the bulls+++ that an actual relationship would entail. All they have to do is listen to you dump your problems on them, laugh at your jokes, have an energetic romp with you, and try and make you feel particularly special when reality dictates that you're anything but that -- reality is that you're a 50 year old dude who has to pay for companionship. If I was a pro, middle aged men would be the perfect targets.

The minute you show a possessive streak and interfere with her business watch her kick your fawning butt to the curb. I guess this is a fundamental difference between men and women. If I hit 50 and find myself alone, you'd best believe that I would absolutely not be paying for sex with a younger man. Heck, at 37 I wouldn't be paying for sex now. No way. I could get it for free if I was single. My mom is 64 years young, still attractive and still puts herself together, and she could still get tail if that's what she wanted in her life. At that age, however, she realized that the drama that comes along with the tail is just not want she wants or needs
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