In love with my escort (child support, frustration, control, wife)
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Where did I ask for advice? I was just telling my story.
I don't need people who know nothing about this world who have way too much time on their hands giving me advice. If you want to learn something, feel free to ask. I'll be glad to enighten you on how this really works.
But when you got advice from people who DO know that world quite well, you rejected that.
Oh, so (in reference to the underlined), now you're here to TEACH us? THAT's why you started this thread? To enlighten us?
I'm divorced and was just having fun. After seeing a dozen or so high-priced escorts, I ran into one that just blew me away. It felt like love at first sight. Within our first few moments in bed together, she snuggled up to me and it felt as if she'd been there forever. I've been seeing her for almost a year and it just keeps getting better and better. The sex went from okay to amazing. We usually spend a couple of days and nights together and I am always incredibly sad when it is time to leave. I'm 50 and she's 22. This is crazy impossible so I kept my feelings to myself. At best to let on is just setting myself up for a big fall. She knows I care about her but I never let on how much until last week. We were eating when I think I let it slip but I'm not really sure what I said. I meant to say something like I care about you and feel closer every time we see each other. But I think I said I'm falling in love. So I tried to cover my tracks and minimize what I had said, and told her not to worry about my head trips, that she's just so beautiful that it's easy to get carried away sometimes. But she said that she cares about me as well; that she finds this confusing, and then she attacked me and we had the best sex that I've had since I was in my twenties. And in her email the next day, she called me "my love". And she has never been one to hype the lovey stuff. That too was a first. I am her favorite and her best client but she has no reason to lie. She knows I'm not going away. She had me completely hooked long ago.
So I have to assume that she could be working me, but that really isn't her style. Another guy fell in love with her some time back and she refused to see him anymore. But with me she seems to be reciprocating. And she knows I will continue to see her whether she pretends to love me or not. So I don't know what to think. It was almost easier when I thought there was no chance. Now I'm not sure.
The worst of it is that she has affected me deeply in ways that no women ever has before, including all previous girlfriends and my ex wife.
I am so screwed! But I'll take whatever I can get. I am so pathetic!
OP, this is why people thought you were asking for advice. These are not the words of a man posting in order to "enlighten" others. Please re-familiarize yourself with your own OP.
But when you got advice from people who DO know that world quite well, you rejected that.
Oh, so (in reference to the underlined), now you're here to TEACH us? THAT's why you started this thread? To enlighten us?
OP, you are SO bogus!
So Ruth, I understand that you respect those guys who know a lot about escorts, but you don´t respect the OP.
So basicaly is okay to use women as sexual tools (as those men did), as long as you don´t fall in love with any of them? (as seems to be the caseof the OP)
But when you got advice from people who DO know that world quite well, you rejected that.
I heard a lot of wild-eyed mispresentations of my position and I heard a lot of people stating the obvious. And I heard a lot of people explain her to me, nevermind that I've known her for a year and no one here does. And geewiz, she's a hooker and hookers lie? No sht! Really?
Your problem is in assuming that any valuable contribution was made by people like you. I know all of that and much much more.
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Oh, so (in reference to the underlined), now you're here to TEACH us? THAT's why you started this thread? To enlighten us?
OP, you are SO bogus!
I was just telling my story. It was you who assumed that it was your place to enlighten and ridicule me.
OP, this is why people thought you were asking for advice. These are not the words of a man posting in order to "enlighten" others. Please re-familiarize yourself with your own OP.
Was there a question in there?
It seemed more a confession than a question, don't you think? I've been in love with this girl for most of a year now and never said a word to anyone, and never let on. Is it really so hard to understand me wanting to talk about it just to talk about it?
I understand all of the complications of this all too well. As much as I'm in heaven half the time, my heart is being ripped out the next moment. I know it's nuts and I assumed there was zero chance of anything being there. But I know it does happen from time to time and I got some really interesting signals from her during our last visit. I can't help but hope just a little. It is hope beyond hope but there is a slight glimmer that I didn't think possible at all. So yes, I'm pathetic. But it's strangely woderful at the same time. I haven't felt like this since I was a very young man. But I have felt this way for most of a year now and I'll take every minute of it. I just never had any hope at all.
In the mean time, I get to spend night after night with the girl of my dreams. How bad is that, really. I know now that I fell in love with her the moment I first looked into her eyes. It's wild, it's animal, it's chemistry, and it's intense. It's as alive as I've ever felt, when I'm with her.
I'm guessing he's imagining a "Pretty Woman" type of scenario, where he rescues her from her fate, supports her the rest of her life, and they live happily ever after, riding off into the sunset.
Somewhere on City-Data there was a hilarious couple of posts on what happened to the Pretty Woman couple down the road.
It went something like she telling him to pick up his socks from the living room floor, and he's saying, "Excuse me? Weren't you a W-H-O-R-E when I first met you? How about you just shut up and pick up those socks yourself?"
Is this how escorts usually work?? I thought they had an agency or something.
Did your friend "pay her" too? What does he think???
He thinks HE'S her favorite client.
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What does he think???