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Maybe it's because I'm young, or maybe it's because I still don't really know what I'm looking for.
Maybe it's my constant indecisiveness...
I don't even want to be in a relationship with anyone(at the moment), but I think it's bizarre that I have no actual "standard" or "preference". I also can't even see myself in a relationship with anyone, I just can't!
I can't see myself going places with some guy, and going out to eat, and bringing him home to my parents. The whole idea makes me feel so weird and out of place. Like, I can't imagine myself sitting across from some guy talking about [insert date convo] The whole idea makes me anxious, and almost frustrates me.
Going with the no actual preference thing: I can't find anyone attractive. I know beauty is subjective, but it's so hard for me. I can go on a dating site to see who the local singles are, and I just can't find them appealing. I can't go outside, and I won't be remotely attracted to anyone. Believe me, I am not a superficial bird. It's not that I think they're "ugly", it's just I can't see it. I can't explain this...
And don't get me wrong, I do find people attractive. But celebs don't count as regular folk, so I'm out of that loop.
Maybe it's because I think too much? I over analyze everyone and study the **** out people.
Maybe it's because I'm young, or maybe it's because I still don't really know what I'm looking for.
Maybe it's my constant indecisiveness...
I don't even want to be in a relationship with anyone(at the moment), but I think it's bizarre that I have no actual "standard" or "preference". I also can't even see myself in a relationship with anyone, I just can't!
I can't see myself going places with some guy, and going out to eat, and bringing him home to my parents. The whole idea makes me feel so weird and out of place. Like, I can't imagine myself sitting across from some guy talking about [insert date convo] The whole idea makes me anxious, and almost frustrates me.
Going with the no actual preference thing: I can't find anyone attractive. I know beauty is subjective, but it's so hard for me. I can go on a dating site to see who the local singles are, and I just can't find them appealing. I can't go outside, and I won't be remotely attracted to anyone. Believe me, I am not a superficial bird. It's not that I think they're "ugly", it's just I can't see it. I can't explain this...
And don't get me wrong, I do find people attractive. But celebs don't count as regular folk, so I'm out of that loop.
Maybe it's because I think too much? I over analyze everyone and study the **** out people.
You find people you have no connection with attractive, but don't find anyone who is available to you attractive.
Why do you think you analyze people so much? What's the point of your analyzing them? By that I mean, what are you trying to figure out about them that leads you to overanalyze them?
one more question before i respond, thoughtfully of course: just to confirm, have you ever had a dating/boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, liked boys, or had sex with a guy?
Guess question could apply to liking, being in a romantic relationship or having sex with a female, but I am assuming you are talking about being attracted to guys.
You find people you have no connection with attractive, but don't find anyone who is available to you attractive.
Apparently, it's not that out of the ordinary. It's easy to grow fond of a celebrity than a non-celeb. Why? Because you can find out everything you need to know about that star with one Google search. With an ordinary Joe, you'll be spending a while listening to their whole life story.
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Originally Posted by RockJock1729
By that I mean, what are you trying to figure out about them that leads you to overanalyze them?
I'm not really trying to figure out anything. I'm just very observant, and nosey. *shrugs* I like to know things, EVERYTHING! lol When I tell interviewers I pay attention to detail, I MEAN IT!
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You find people you have no connection with attractive, but don't find anyone who is available to you attractive. 
