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Im afraid you picked the wrong man. I did not fail. I was married for 25 very happy years not one minute of which was a sexless loveless prison and our love never died. Both my parents and hers were married until death. And you are wrong, your husband goes and gets you all those things for exactly the reasons I said and no other. One other thing, when older men who have been with women for long relationships get together and the conversation turns toward laughing at the things women do the phenomena I just pointed out invariably comes up because the experience is near universal among men NO MATTER HOW HAPPY OR NOT THE MARRIAGE IS, make sure you got that because its a fact. You know one of the things we laugh about? How anyone over the age of 7 could think that a man would actually want to get out of bed in the middle of the night to go get raspberry yogurt for someone else. Makes us laugh and laugh. Like we were laying there thinking "oh man how am I going to sleep if I don't get to show my love and devotion by making a random crap run?" Even more funny is women will often say something like "my husband loves me so much he just loves to do this for me and its not a problem blah blah blah" when in fact he did it because he loves her and wants to be with her so that being the fact it's a better to get the random crap than not because it saves hassle and reduces cold shoulder effect and the threat of it morphing into the more serious cold shoulder butterfly effect. When the conversation gets to that point you can pretty much bet there will not be a set of eyes in the room that dont roll.
Again, stop worrying about it and just be glad you have love. You didn't actually know why he makes the random crap run for you and many women dont so you're not alone. Now you do but it doesn't change the bottom line that he does love you even though he isn't going for quite the reason you thought.
As to shooting you, not a chance. Just the opposite I'm glad for you in your marriage and hope it continues to be good for you both. I like you because you make a coherent argument although you lost your way on the last post by letting yourself populate me with emotions when I actually have none. The random crap run is just something women do, I don't know why and I don't care. I like women. If I have to make a random crap run to keep the ship on an even keel, no big. Thats what I meant when I responded to what Sixy said. Why women want it will never be known to man and who cares, its better for us to just accept it and then we are free to love her anyways. Its what we do.
As to women in 2013 didn't you wonder how I figured that out from the tiny bit Sixy posted? It is 2013 right? lol No, I'm afraid men may not be as stupid as you appear to think.
I don't think men are stupid...I don't think they enjoy making those random crap runs...I'll even go one step further and say women should put a limit on crap runs it undermines our position as equal to our husbands by relying on the old fallback of helpless little ladies!!! As I said to SD I have no clue as to anyones backstory...so please don't feel offended...I will try to"pay more attention" as suggested...so as to not step on anymore toes...! I think you are one of the good guys and enjoy reading your point of views!!
Damn Beagle, aren't you listening???? It's 2013 and you are acting like your helpless and need him to rescue you. Quit doing that!
Buy a freakin' step stool and stop making us look bad. Sheesh!
LMAO
Okay, I will get with the program. Actually, I use a kitchen chair. A step stool is too short.
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