End of relationship advice

[SeekingWomanMyAge]

Originally Posted by lastwomanstanding

You never know. I have known couples who get back together after 4 years or 10 years, some LONG amount of time (usually these people were once married though) and I have heard of others who reconcile after 25 or 30 years! I do think it has to do with who's left at that point! Stay in touch with your lady. I know how it feels too. Too bad most people have to experience that at least once in their lives.

LastWomanStanding ... I'm curious about your breakup. Was he the dumper? When did he attempt to reconcile? It's tough that it took a year to reach indifference. I'm on month four post breakup and still riding that roller coaster. I seem to be far away from indifference. Maybe because the reasons for the breakup were more miscommunication and I keep thinking she'll sort her feelings out.

[TabulaRasa]

I can't imagine a world in which I would WANT to get back together with someone who dumped me.

[rego00123]

learn from the experience and move on.
what else can you expect to do?

if your asking "how do i learn to make better choices for myself?" i cant help you here, that's another topic entirely. i can tell you the first thing is to drop the anger and start seeing things objectively then apply it to all aspects of your life.

[1AngryTaxPayer]

Originally Posted by TabulaRasa

I can't imagine a world in which I would WANT to get back together with someone who dumped me.

OH @#$#$ NO

Once the trust is lost, it's lost for good. Consider they did you a favor and move on.

[SeekingWomanMyAge]

Originally Posted by 1AngryTaxPayer

OH @#$#$ NO

Once the trust is lost, it's lost for good. Consider they did you a favor and move on.

Indifference is where you want to be. But it's a hard journey if you loved someone even if they dumped you.