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Before I met my guy, I've dated some guys in the past who had decent personalities and were generally good men overall - but their inability to kiss sensuously turned me off to the point that I stopped dating them. This may sound a bit superficial (I don't mean it to), but yes, a man's ability to kiss well is important to me. My guy is the first man that I've ever been with that kisses me so passionately and sensuously that it arouses me to the point of wanting to take his clothes off and climbing on him right then and there! Until I met him, I never knew what that felt like!
Some people may not think kissing is as important as a man or woman being a good/great lover or as important as them being physically attractive or as important as other factors. In my opinion though, a man who is a good kisser means he's probably um, good at doing other things.
Have you ever been told you are/were a good kisser? Have you ever been sensuously kissed by someone and thought, "Wow!"...? Alternatively, have you ever been kissed by someone who didn't really know how to kiss that well?
The video below shows a couple who know how to kiss each other sensuously and passionately. Do you think the video represents passionate kissing, or do you think their style of kissing is too "sloppy" or "too much"?
Before I met my guy, I've dated some guys in the past who had decent personalities and were generally good men overall - but their inability to kiss sensuously turned me off to the point that I stopped dating them. This may sound a bit superficial (I don't mean it to), but yes, a man's ability to kiss well is important to me. My guy is the first man that I've ever been with that kisses me so passionately and sensuously that it arouses me to the point of wanting to take his clothes off and climbing on him right then and there! Until I met him, I never knew what that felt like!
Some people may not think kissing is as important as a man or woman being a good/great lover or as important as them being physically attractive or as important as other factors. In my opinion though, a man who is a good kisser means he's probably um, good at doing other things.
Have you ever been told you are/were a good kisser? Have you ever been sensuously kissed by someone and thought, "Wow!"...? Alternatively, have you ever been kissed by someone who didn't really know how to kiss that well?
The video below shows a couple who know how to kiss each other sensuously and passionately. Do you think the video represents passionate kissing, or do you think their style of kissing is too "sloppy" or "too much"?
Part of the reason for kissing is that it is an exchange of information, much of it chemical. A large part of what we feel as attraction is based on genetics. That feeling you get sometimes, probably has a lot to do with complimentary immune systems - which means that his immune system protects against some things that yours doesn't - which means if you have offspring the child will be have a better immune system.
Romantic, huh.
Some people are bad kissers. I dated one woman (lots of possible stories about her) who did the lizard kiss. Sticking her tongue quickly in and out of my mouth. That wasn't so good.
Part of the reason for kissing is that it is an exchange of information, much of it chemical. A large part of what we feel as attraction is based on genetics. That feeling you get sometimes, probably has a lot to do with complimentary immune systems - which means that his immune system protects against some things that yours doesn't - which means if you have offspring the child will be have a better immune system.
Romantic, huh.
It may not be "romantic", but it's something based on fact with awesome side effects.
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Some people are bad kissers. I dated one woman (lots of possible stories about her) who did the lizard kiss. Sticking her tongue quickly in and out of my mouth. That wasn't so good.
Ha! I literally LOL'd when I read this hehe. I had the same thing happen to me in my early 20s, and let me just tell you...it was the last date I ever went on with him!
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I enjoy kissing and think it's very important. I've kissed less than 10 people but I don't think any of them were particularly bad kissers. Regarding the guy who I enjoyed kissing the most, he might not have even been that great at it but I just thought he was gorgeous so it worked for me!
Kissing-- is like finding a shoe that fits: if the shoe doesn't, then it's uncomfortable and not the "shoe" for you!
I like the way you worded that!
@Taoist: Unfortunately, I do believe that to be true. At least in my case. Which is not to say that a man can't learn to kiss well with practice if he's eager and a quick study. However, I feel that if a man hasn't learned how to kiss sensuously by the time he's in (at least) his mid 20s, then um, I don't know...
@Sugar: It's a good thing for him that his gorgeousness was enough for you to go with the flow!
We've had thread after thread about this, though, so if anyone feels like digging through them they'll find some of my answers there.
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Until I met him, I never knew what that felt like! 
