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Old 02-12-2013, 03:11 PM
 
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Originally Posted by fleetiebelle View Post
I'd say most women enjoy being appreciated and admired, and they don't enjoy being leered at or harassed. It's not really a huge secret.
Exactly. Not sure why anyone would even try to make a mystery of it.
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Old 02-12-2013, 03:16 PM
 
Location: St Augustine
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They really like it when you stare at their boobs.
Nah, I think talking to a girl face-to-face, then sneaking a peek at her butt as she walks away is a win-win.

I don't stare in a perverted way and howl like a horn dog, I nod my head and say "not bad" until I realized the room had mirrors everywhere and she saw me staring and nodding. lmao
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Old 02-12-2013, 03:26 PM
 
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Most likely if someone was checking me out, I wouldn't notice. I'm notoriously oblivious and unobservant.

However, I have noticed if I try to make eye contact and smile at someone, they usually get a deer in the headlights look of panic and can't avoid my gaze fast enough.
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Old 02-12-2013, 05:10 PM
 
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Most likely if someone was checking me out, I wouldn't notice. I'm notoriously oblivious and unobservant.
This ^^^
I'm completely oblivious to what goes on around me.

I wouldn't mind, I just don't think it happens all that much.
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Old 02-12-2013, 05:52 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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The girls wearing skin tight clothes at my gym don't seem to mind.
I wear baggy shorts and tshirts to the gym...I'm there to exercise, not be ogled.

Are these the same women that wear $200 'workout clothes', come to the gym with a full face of makeup and their hair done, spend 20 minutes on the eliptical and then leave?

As for everyday life, I get stared at because I'm tall and ample busted. It's more shock than actual admiration so I always feel a little uncomfortable when people look. I love winter because I can wear big coats
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Old 02-12-2013, 05:56 PM
 
Location: St Augustine
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I wear baggy shorts and tshirts to the gym...I'm there to exercise, not be ogled.

Are these the same women that wear $200 'workout clothes', come to the gym with a full face of makeup and their hair done, spend 20 minutes on the eliptical and then leave?

As for everyday life, I get stared at because I'm tall and ample busted. It's more shock than actual admiration so I always feel a little uncomfortable when people look. I love winter because I can wear big coats

Haha, I see girls that wear expensive short-shorts and make-up just to go fishing at the beach.

What the heck...
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Old 02-12-2013, 08:11 PM
 
Location: Arizona
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Some will like it, some will not. And some who do like it, will only like it if it's an appropriate situation. At work during a meeting or on a dark street corner is not appropriate. At a party or a meetup, sure, go for it.
Even if its not an appropriate situation, somewhere in her mind she likes it.
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Old 02-12-2013, 08:13 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Even if its not an appropriate situation, somewhere in her mind she likes it.
Not when you feel unsafe.
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Old 02-12-2013, 08:13 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Its hard to admit, because a womans social world is hinged on the fact that she does not want to be seen as a ****. THats why women round down the number of past sexual partners when asked, come up with ridiculous excuses to push the responsibility of sex on a man saying things like "he swept me off my feet, there was nothing i could do" or "I was feeling drunk, there was nothing I could do", pretend like they are shocked when guys whisper sexual things into their ears, make guys wait 90 days or some other set amount of time before having sex and a looooong list of other examples. Dont worry, they love it! If they didnt, they wouldnt spend 2 hours getting ready, before stepping their foot outside the door.
Correct, close thread now.
Also it obviously depends if the guy checking her out, she sees as desirable or not and her mood at the time.

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Old 02-12-2013, 08:20 PM
 
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Even if its not an appropriate situation, somewhere in her mind she likes it.
thats a double edged sword,,, I once made a comment -thinking it was flattering to a woman in a business meeting,,,and I got the snake eye,, thought she was gonna spit venom my way.
never did it again...
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