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Old 02-12-2013, 11:41 AM
 
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Ok, so I'm on a relationship site...and this girl messages me like "blah blah blah you're funny".....and i'm like, ok...you live so far away that nothing is ever going to happen...so how do I respond to that? So, just to see what would happen, I send back...

"i'm looking for sex...but you're too far away for that to happen...so i guess i'll settle for a relationship."

her response? "here's my number...hit me up.."

you see, now i feel bad. it's true...i'm usually looking for sex and relationships come with that for a lot of women...but, jeez...usually it's like, you know...not explicit. i'm nice...i don't think talking to people about what you want to do to (or with) them is appropriate...especially if they're strangers...

more importantly, why is it that being crass gets you attention?

just a word to the wise, i guess...the girl i'll end up with would never in a million years respond to that with anything but indignation....
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Old 02-12-2013, 11:49 AM
 
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YOU already said no relationship so she took your word for it. I guess she still thought you were attractive enough for a roll in the hay.
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Old 02-12-2013, 11:56 AM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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YOU already said no relationship so she took your word for it. I guess she still thought you were attractive enough for a roll in the hay.
^^^^ yip I agree!!

If we agree to a roll in hay we're a **** if we don't we're high strung

We just can't win
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Old 02-12-2013, 01:36 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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So YOU ask her for sex, and she replies with a number, and now you're judging HER? Hmm.
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Old 02-12-2013, 01:52 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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Being blunt and straightforward might elicit a blunt and straightforward response. Shocking, isn't it?
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Old 02-12-2013, 01:53 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Ok, so I'm on a relationship site...and this girl messages me like "blah blah blah you're funny".....and i'm like, ok...you live so far away that nothing is ever going to happen...so how do I respond to that? So, just to see what would happen, I send back...

"i'm looking for sex...but you're too far away for that to happen...so i guess i'll settle for a relationship."

her response? "here's my number...hit me up.."

you see, now i feel bad. it's true...i'm usually looking for sex and relationships come with that for a lot of women...but, jeez...usually it's like, you know...not explicit. i'm nice...i don't think talking to people about what you want to do to (or with) them is appropriate...especially if they're strangers...

more importantly, why is it that being crass gets you attention?

just a word to the wise, i guess...the girl i'll end up with would never in a million years respond to that with anything but indignation....
Being that crass will get you laid with one woman out of every 5 or 10. You just normally have to tolerate being rejected and possibly yelled at or slapped by the other 4 to 9. You hit the jackpot, apparently. And, as many others are noting, you are a doofus for complaining, when you initiated it. Take it or leave it.
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Old 02-12-2013, 01:55 PM
 
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How dare she!
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Old 02-12-2013, 02:03 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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Goodness a catch 22; can't be free and want sex because that isn't lady like, if you don't put out on a guy's deadline, then you're stuck up and it's hopeless having a relationship with you because I don't trust you, and trust is the block on which relationships are built.

Or maybe you would have appreciated her more if she acted offended like a "real" lady would have done, and you talked her into having sex with you.

Wait, does that count as her being a ***** because she gave in to easy or does that count her as an innocent lady that you now have to shelter and protect and wed?

How long is too long or short to display human sexual urges? I know a guy can display those feelings as soon as he says hello, if he does say hello, or he can just greet a female sexually.

Come on I need answers so I won't fall into uncertainty!
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Old 02-12-2013, 06:26 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Goodness a catch 22; can't be free and want sex because that isn't lady like, if you don't put out on a guy's deadline, then you're stuck up and it's hopeless having a relationship with you because I don't trust you, and trust is the block on which relationships are built.

Or maybe you would have appreciated her more if she acted offended like a "real" lady would have done, and you talked her into having sex with you.

Wait, does that count as her being a ***** because she gave in to easy or does that count her as an innocent lady that you now have to shelter and protect and wed?

How long is too long or short to display human sexual urges? I know a guy can display those feelings as soon as he says hello, if he does say hello, or he can just greet a female sexually.

Come on I need answers so I won't fall into uncertainty!
What, you didn't know that if a woman doesn't put out she's a prude and he'll toss her aside for a woman who will put out quickly, but if she does put out she's obviously a skank that sleeps around and isn't worthy of a relationship.

Obviously.

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Old 02-12-2013, 06:31 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, TX
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What, you didn't know that if a woman doesn't put out she's a prude and he'll toss her aside for a woman who will put out quickly, but if she does put out she's obviously a skank that sleeps around and isn't worthy of a relationship.

Obviously.


Nah, I didn't know there was an underlying meaning. Goodness guys are confusing, I'm going back to the church to become a nun
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