How long is too long for intimacy? (married, woman, husband)

[Ovaninek]

So I hear a lot I stories of these minute men, thank goodness it has ever happen to me, but there are times where I have been putting in work and the woman looks at me and asks I'm not done yet as she's used to a short feature film so to speak.

What would be an ideal timeline for you?

I'm typically 5-10 foreplay then 15-20 after that and so far I've had no complaints.

[RedZin]

Sounds sort of like a complaint, doesn't it?

Or did you mean that she is more like remarking in surprise that you're not done yet?

Good rule of thumb: if she's done, don't drag it out unless she seems to be really into continuing.

[Frihed89]

It varies. I'd say a "quickie" can last as little as 10 minutes or perhaps as long as 30 minutes. Otherwise, including everything, the average is probably between an hour and and an hour-and-a-half.

[Ovaninek]

Originally Posted by meh_whatever

Sounds sort of like a complaint, doesn't it?

Or did you mean that she is more like remarking in surprise that you're not done yet?

Good rule of thumb: if she's done, don't drag it out unless she seems to be really into continuing.

More like a good surprise.

[yankeegirl313]

If your putting in an effort, and she says,"I`m not done yet" by no means, don`t stop!!!!!

[angelinajolie]

I told my husband I'm surprised it's taking longer for his happy ending these last few days. I literally still feel the sore of my left arm this morning coz he ask for happy ending last night using my hands and I swear it took him forever. He said he's just tired and kind of sick.

[the_windwalker]

Originally Posted by angelinajolie

I told my husband I'm surprised it's taking longer for his happy ending these last few days. I literally still feel the sore of my left arm this morning coz he ask for happy ending last night using my hands and I swear it took him forever. He said he's just tired and kind of sick.

Don't know how old he is, but over the years, men's testosterone levels drop, and it starts taking longer for the "happy ending". Eventually, he'll be able to go for 48 hours straight before the "happy ending".

[angelinajolie]

Originally Posted by the_windwalker

Don't know how old he is, but over the years, men's testosterone levels drop, and it starts taking longer for the "happy ending". Eventually, he'll be able to go for 48 hours straight before the "happy ending".

We're both in our 40s. We just got married. He usually doesn't take long especially the first time we did it after his 9 yrs without sex, lol.

[RedZin]

Originally Posted by Ovaninek

More like a good surprise.

Maybe she's used to guys who get theirs and stop?

[TaoistDude]

Keep going until you both have climaxes or calluses.