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She should count her blessings that he's being approached by guys and not by women. If he were being approached by women everywhere, that would be a much bigger problem for her, wouldn't it?
You always see pretty fat girls with gay guys for some reason. Is that because straight men don't want them?
If the guy's gay, he doesn't want her either, at least *that way*.
There's a joke that fat women and gay men make great friends because they're both used to disappointing their parents and being looked down on by society.
She should count her blessings that he's being approached by guys and not by women. If he were being approached by women everywhere, that would be a much bigger problem for her, wouldn't it?
Haha, yes, that is true! I hadn't looked at it that way. Great perspective
Have you ever dated anyone who others think is gay? Did they turn out to be gay? What happened?
I ask because I am gay, and my sister is involved with a guy who everyone thinks is gay. Its awkward.
When I was young everyone thought I was gay. A girl I worked with was at a party with me. I was flirting clearly but I've never been the usual macho guy so she still thought I was gay.
After the party when everyone went home very drunk, she "dropped by" to "see" if I was gay. She actually claimed it was because of a fight with her live in boyfriend. She later admitted that she along with most of my female friends wanted to see if I was gay.
3 years later we were married with a daughter.
So... Knowing someone is gay is really just assuming someone is gay because whatever they do/say/whatever matches what the assumer believe constitutes being gay...
If the guy's gay, he doesn't want her either, at least *that way*.
There's a joke that fat women and gay men make great friends because they're both used to disappointing their parents and being looked down on by society.
I think that women (regardless of body type) who don't fit the "norm" for what's considered appropriate for their age group are more accepted by gay men. Why would a gay man be hypercritical of a woman? He's not looking to date one.
From these scenarios, really great friendships can develop.
This reflects more on how harsh society can be on people that are "different" than it does on gay men and women who don't have perfect physiques.
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