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Old 02-14-2013, 06:29 PM
 
Location: southern california
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u r right. internet was a huge waste of time for me.
here is what worked for me.
for me, better to spend your time learning to ballroom dance, if you clean up well they will line up to know u.

 
Old 02-14-2013, 06:30 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Originally Posted by Ulysses61 View Post
Wow!!! News Flash!

You've been ignored all your life by women and have a lot of misplaced enmity directed toward the female gender.

We agree, thus:

1. There's no point in dating for you!
2. All guys get cruelly dumped by fickle women!
3. Men have no value anymore!!

Now move on to a Monastery and die a virgin.
I remember visiting the orthodox monasteries in the Meteora region of Greece. Doesn't actually seem like a bad life; peace, quiet, food, shelter. Of course...no shenanigans. But I'm sure they'll get some in the next life...or is that the Muslims?
 
Old 02-14-2013, 08:08 PM
 
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The way I see it, theres really no point in dating. A girl can dump a guy anytime she wants, join a dating site and have hundreds of guys asking her out. Men don't really have much value anymore.
Do you deny the reality that every year, millions of people fall in love, millions get married, millions start families, and millions grieve their beloved partner who dies too soon?

What the hell is wrong with you?

Log off, take a shower, get out of your damn basement and open your eyes to the real world.
 
Old 02-14-2013, 08:13 PM
 
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Do you deny the reality that every year, millions of people fall in love, millions get married, millions start families, and millions grieve their beloved partner who dies too soon?

What the hell is wrong with you?

Log off, take a shower, get out of your damn basement and open your eyes to the real world.
These types never seen the forest for the trees. Everything in life revolves around them and their issues. They don't bother looking at the big picture because it's all about them and their tiny little narrow view of life. The sad sack mentality is rife around here.
 
Old 02-14-2013, 08:22 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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u r right. internet was a huge waste of time for me.
here is what worked for me.
for me, better to spend your time learning to ballroom dance, if you clean up well they will line up to know u.
LOTS of truth to the learning to dance idea, but the internet has always provided great results for me as well.
 
Old 02-14-2013, 08:23 PM
 
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That is 100% false. Women have ALL the power and control when it comes to online dating. Guys have no control over which women they go out with. Thats why I believe men are very rapidly losing their value.
I believe you are wrong...
I know from experience that it is both sexes that do this...

Aside from this my very good friend has been using online dating for 4 years and there are guys she has liked that have not responded to her and some that have..It all boils down to the same thing I have always stated, you are never going to be everyone's cup of tea, different strokes for different folks..

So I feel this defeated attitude of yours will get you nowhere fast..Maybe it is your outlook that you need to change..
 
Old 02-14-2013, 08:28 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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OP, all I can say is that sure, women can dump you, but if you have anything to offer then most will not. Besides, only the most desirable women can be cavalier in dating, yet the good ones are not. Most desirable women with any maturity also want lasting relationships, but with their equals. So, the problem is more likely you than them.
 
Old 02-14-2013, 08:32 PM
 
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OP is actually 100% correct, once you understand his perspective.

He is chasing the same small percentage of women online that the other 50,000 men are chasing. He doesn't really care what the little porkers think, or what kind of dating success they are having.

Yes a hot woman can dump her current guy and replace him with 5 others online faster than you can say "shallow as shxt".

Which brings me to my next point. Men are shallow as shxt.
 
Old 02-14-2013, 08:37 PM
 
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There's some stupid people in the world.

Until he gets it, he's one of those people.
 
Old 02-14-2013, 08:39 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Yes a hot woman can dump her current guy and replace him with 5 others online faster than you can say "shallow as shxt".
Not if she doesn't want a shallow guy or a sleaze. Women online are chasing a tiny minority of quality men. A guy with a good job and average or better looks can pretty much have his pick of women online. It's a game for some guys to see how many women they can bed, discard, move on to the next one. That kind of thing goes on a lot.
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