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when you're drunk you think your game is amazing but it actually sucks, when you're sober you think your game sucks but it's actually not too bad.
the only thing is that you're more aggressive drunk. more impulsive. it's not necessarily a good thing. being a bit more choosy, not so loose, you can maybe find someone you'd really like...and not be swayed by her amazing boobs.
Obviously when you're drunk, your perceptions are alterered, including self-perceptions. Have you ever been sober and around someone who is drunk? It's not pretty, it can be comical, or more often pitiful to watch. You think you're great and have it going on, but you don't. You're not alert, you may be slurring, your eyes aren't fully open, you can't walk properly, and all of the other physical and mental things alcohol does to a body, including sexual functioning.
If you're giving up alcohol, you'll probably have to give up the girls who are drunk and/or turned on by drunken sex. But hey, if you have your sh*t together, maybe you'll find a girl with her sh*t together...
It's not that your drunk game is amazing, it's that it removes inhibitions. I'ts actually making your social skills worse, but giving you the impression that they're competent.
And I'm contemplating giving up booze for good. So does this mean I should look forward to celibacy?
What does one have to do with the other?
Guys are way too dependent on bars for meeting women. That's not the best place to meet women. Branch out. Get involved in your community. You'll discover a lot of women who don't drink.
It means you need to stop holding yourself back when you're sober.
Relax. Enjoy life. Enjoy people. You shouldn't have to drug yourself in order to enjoy the company of other people.
sheesh
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