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View Poll Results: Would you be a sugar daddy, giving up a more loving, committed relationship for fresh meat?
Yes 36 30.00%
No 84 70.00%
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Old 02-24-2013, 11:46 PM
 
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not really.
i would rather be alone and perusing something i love then chase after things i need in the moment.

now, if you had asked me this question 15 years ago when i was a much younger man the tables would have most defiantly been turn in the other favor.
Just as a matter of principle, there is no chase. That's the point. For some of us, the chase is too big of a waste of time.
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Old 02-24-2013, 11:48 PM
 
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Just as a matter of principle, there is no chase. That's the point. For some of us, the chase is too big of a waste of time.
the chase i refer to is the constant need for something, not the way in which you obtain it.
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Old 02-24-2013, 11:49 PM
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I'm curious how many of you men in you're 30's to 50's would prefer to spend a lot of money on what is basically a prostitute of college age, rather than have a true love romance and committed partnership with someone closer to your age and about as intelligent?

I'm 21 and apparently females in my age bracket are all like, yay, of course I'll pimp myself out for money! I have a boyfriend who is 13 years older, and he doesn't even take me out to dinner, let alone buy me flowers because he's poor. The idea of a sugar daddy has appealed to me just because I do appreciate the fine life, but I'd rather get an honest job and work my way up through education because that dynamic is so heartless and superficial. And having a partner who loves me more for my personality than my physical self is preferred. All you (sugar daddy) men want is fresh meat, and aren't willing to put the time and effort into cultivating a lasting and loving relationship with a more mature woman. When I'm older, in my 30's let's say, and see a lot of men my age disinterested in a committed relationship with someone like me because they want someone just out of high school I think I will be sickened. Girls my age, even girls I know, are becoming prostitutes so they can be lazy. I bet older women are disgusted by the lack of morals and self-respect (to be willing to exploit themselves) of younger women like myself, and feel I should do them a favor by not adding myself to the pool of young whores.

I wonder, if my own boyfriend became rich, would he leave me for someone younger, who he wouldn't have to commit to? Probably.

I'm a cynical person, but also a realistic person. I bet most men would prefer to be a sugar daddy given the chance.


I have done it in the past when I was introduced to craigslist. Not sure when I will ever be able to do it again since I'm in the process of moving and saving money.

Bur I enjoyed the experience and actually miss it a little.
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Old 02-25-2013, 12:04 AM
 
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well...I don't know his exact age but he's more than a few years older than me. We met on a site that's specifically for SBs and SDs. PS LOTS of johns on that site looking for discount escorts, don't fall for it ladies. We just started the arrangement so I haven't traveled with him yet...but he compensates me generously for the convenience of this situation and hanging out with him for a few hours. I couldn't see him in normal relationship, he's too much of a workaholic.
So do you have another source of income or does he pay your rent,car,clothing insurance etc?
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Old 02-25-2013, 04:34 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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I have done it in the past when I was introduced to craigslist. Not sure when I will ever be able to do it again since I'm in the process of moving and saving money.

Bur I enjoyed the experience and actually miss it a little.
Now that you have a new job, are moving to a new apartment and have taken on a new CD user name, things might be looking up, TVSG. Maybe you'll soon be able to afford to pay for sex again.
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Old 02-25-2013, 06:40 AM
 
Location: Bangkok, NYC, and LV
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I am a quasi SD. It's very spoiling though. I normally help girls with tuition, shopping, and bills but never hand them cash. i also do cool vacations to europe and south east asia.

it works for all parties and it gives me an empowering sense of command.
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Old 02-25-2013, 07:16 AM
 
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I'm curious how many of you men in you're 30's to 50's would prefer to spend a lot of money on what is basically a prostitute of college age, rather than have a true love romance and committed partnership with someone closer to your age and about as intelligent?

I'm 21 and apparently females in my age bracket are all like, yay, of course I'll pimp myself out for money! I have a boyfriend who is 13 years older, and he doesn't even take me out to dinner, let alone buy me flowers because he's poor. The idea of a sugar daddy has appealed to me just because I do appreciate the fine life, but I'd rather get an honest job and work my way up through education because that dynamic is so heartless and superficial. And having a partner who loves me more for my personality than my physical self is preferred. All you (sugar daddy) men want is fresh meat, and aren't willing to put the time and effort into cultivating a lasting and loving relationship with a more mature woman. When I'm older, in my 30's let's say, and see a lot of men my age disinterested in a committed relationship with someone like me because they want someone just out of high school I think I will be sickened. Girls my age, even girls I know, are becoming prostitutes so they can be lazy. I bet older women are disgusted by the lack of morals and self-respect (to be willing to exploit themselves) of younger women like myself, and feel I should do them a favor by not adding myself to the pool of young whores.

I wonder, if my own boyfriend became rich, would he leave me for someone younger, who he wouldn't have to commit to? Probably.

I'm a cynical person, but also a realistic person. I bet most men would prefer to be a sugar daddy given the chance.
I think you're going to find there are a lot more women looking for this type of easy life than there are men willing to support them. No offense to you but as we men have grown a little older there are a few things we've learned about MOST young women. First is the amount of drama that comes with them, second is the complete lack of interest in anything that doesn't fit into the little bubble they choose to live in.

Most women begin to mature between 30-35. This is when the BS and games finally begin to stop. I don't know a guy over the age of 30 that would waste his time or money on college aged girl. We've all had that 20 yr old neighbor or the local waitress hit on you when they find out you have some cash. I was once followed into a bar by a 22 yr old because of the car I was driving. It gets old quick.


You're on the right track. Get yourself an education and work for what you want. Your friends that are looking to be supported are in for a rude awaking one day. Eventually their looks will fade and they won't have skills to fall back on.. Then what.. Not a pretty picture.
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Old 02-25-2013, 08:07 AM
 
Location: The #1 sunshine state, Arizona.
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I have done it in the past when I was introduced to craigslist. Not sure when I will ever be able to do it again since I'm in the process of moving and saving money.

Bur I enjoyed the experience and actually miss it a little.
I think you are confusing a sugar daddy with being a john. If I recall correctly, you were paying for a few hours of a lady's time with an AM EX gift card. A sugar daddy would make grand gestures, take a woman shopping for designer clothing and accessories, pay her college tuition, take her on exotic vacations, purchase breast enhancements, buy her a new car.
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Old 02-25-2013, 08:20 AM
 
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Never.

Last thing I want is a girl to be into me because of the size of my wallet, or that can't take care of or support herself.

If I wanted that, I'd have a kid. :P
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Old 02-25-2013, 08:54 AM
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I think you are confusing a sugar daddy with being a john. If I recall correctly, you were paying for a few hours of a lady's time with an AM EX gift card. A sugar daddy would make grand gestures, take a woman shopping for designer clothing and accessories, pay her college tuition, take her on exotic vacations, purchase breast enhancements, buy her a new car.

Well maybe I was a "sugar-less" daddy
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