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Old 02-20-2013, 05:36 AM
Location: Australia
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Originally Posted by tropical87 View Post
I didnít want a relationship Ė I was devoted to my daughter and my job in promotions. One-night stands didnít appeal, either. I didnít want to bring a strange man back to my house now I had a baby.

And going to a strangerís house was just as dangerous. Looking on a escort listings website, I was amazed at all the different ads.

Eventually, I chose Steve, who was in his late twenties...

Read more: We pay for male escort sex | The Sun |Woman|Real Life

Prostitution is one of the oldest paying professions in the world, been around for hundreds of years.

Why is it different for men wanting sex to women wanting sex and paying for it?

Come on lets be equal here. I have a friend who is in a wheel chair and he has the same "escort lady" serve him in the special way that he needs to get sexual satisfaction for a number of years now. He wouldn't get that same treatment any other way. He tried for many years to find a girlfriend or have "pick up" sex but it doesn't work well for his situation.

Why can't women pay for it? I actually can see the benefits (even though I haven't paid for sex). The women would be able to request how she wants to be satisfied and the "male escort" is probably quite experienced and may last the whole hour. Too many men don't have the stamina to go for long periods of time and actually ensure the woman is satisfied. A good quality escort service does practice safe and healthy sex workplaces, they get regular medical checks, practice safe sex, etc. I would hope the random stranger would practice safe sex but the odds are higher against it.

So if I felt the need to pay for a male "escort" I would not hesitate. Everyone has different situations and different reasons and we need to be more open minded about these things.

Old 02-20-2013, 06:11 AM
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Nothing wrong with 2 consenting adults having a simple business transaction
Old 02-20-2013, 06:25 AM
Location: NoVa
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Originally Posted by tropical87 View Post
It's very small minded to assume just because you are a window you need to be celibate for ever and in mourning for the rest of your life. These people need human company too and might feel better paying for it then getting rif raf from the local club to do it for free

Well, nice of you to say, being that I was not attacking you.

I don't think it is small minded at all. When a person has been in love with another person for many years and loses them to death, they don't come out and look for the first thing to have sex with, paid or unpaid.

They grieve the loss of their spouse. I never said they had to be celibate and I never said they had to be in mourning for the rest of their life, either.

I also know that people require human company.

I actually gave my thoughts on the matter. I did not say the world had to adhere to them.

Get a grip.
Old 02-20-2013, 06:46 AM
29 posts, read 62,714 times
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I couldn't see myself doing it but I know females who have done it before.
Old 02-20-2013, 06:51 AM
Location: Houston, Tx
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Originally Posted by stan4 View Post
Guys are so easy, as a woman you should NEVER have to pay to have sex.
^^^^^ this. I'm pretty sure a attractive women would never have to pay for sex. She'd have guys lined up to bang her.
Old 02-20-2013, 06:55 AM
Location: Houston, Tx
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth View Post
The point is to get sex that actually is satisfying, and gives you an "O". Your method won't work, and also opens women up to risk of bodily harm. Get real, people. We don't want to become crime statistics.
Lol there is no guarentee that a male wh*re is going to give you a big "O".
Old 02-20-2013, 06:59 AM
Location: Houston, Tx
8,262 posts, read 6,373,250 times
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Originally Posted by jerseygal4u View Post
I have read about old white women paying for sex in Jamaica and Kenya.
Key word OLD, probably not very attractive.
Old 02-20-2013, 07:06 AM
Location: Texas
32,433 posts, read 31,372,917 times
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Originally Posted by filihok View Post

Nevermind the article, couldn't even read the OP eh?
What are you talking about?
This woman was trying to justify silly behavior when she could have just as easily gotten a guy without having to pay for it.
Old 02-20-2013, 07:54 AM
Location: The Hall of Justice
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LOL @ paying for sex. I don't see a need for it and would not do it.
Old 02-20-2013, 08:51 AM
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I personally would NEVER do that; I have more respect for myself and my body than to do something like that. But, for those who are unable (for whatever reason) to find an exclusive person in which to have "satisfying" sex with; those who simply do not want the "complications" and "hassles" associated with being in a relationship or those who only care about achieving the Holy Grail of satisfying sex (the "big O"), then paying for sex would make sense to them.
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