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I created an account on POF to look at the men my friend was talking with. My photo was of a 4 ft, midget Santa that I have and my occupation was goat herder. In the comments section I put that I was 18, hot, and looking for lovin. I got so many responses...that I ignored. Freaks!
Some men are so battered by rejection and so afraid of being rejected anymore that they'll take anything.
I think it depends on the situation. I've been to plenty of parties where I actively flirted and even suggested that we go out and do whatever activity or interest we had in common together only to get the 'oh...yeah, well, maybe' and then avoidance for the rest of the evening.
Trust me, it happens and I absolutely consider that rejection.
In this case here...you were intending to do an activity together, which is seeking something. Of course, a disappearing act or flakiness is rejection.
How do you know that they hooked up? How do you know they are married/engaged/having sex/dating? How do you know they aren't neighbors/co-workers/relatives/good friends/strangers walking each other to the bus?
And you are sweet on the inside? Would you say this is so?
It doesn't matter what I am since I'm not the one with relationship issues. But, hook up as in whatever. Go to google images and type in ugly wedding couple. Physically unattractive get together.
Sounds like you think these women should be worshiping you because they're so unworthy of attention and you're willing to give it to them. Why would I want to be with someone who chose me because they thought I couldn't do any better?
Life is unfair. Get used to it.
Can you reword that?
Sounds like you think that one of these women should be romantically interested in you because she isn't getting anywhere by demanding looks and you're smart enough to look at inner qualities instead of superficial ones.
How do you know that they hooked up? How do you know they are married/engaged/having sex/dating? How do you know they aren't neighbors/co-workers/relatives/good friends/strangers walking each other to the bus?
Body language, usually. Most neighbors, co-workers, or strangers don't hold hands or walk arm-in-arm, lean in and kiss each other. If you're paying attention you can usually tell who's a romantic couple and who's not.
It doesn't matter what I am since I'm not the one with relationship issues. But, hook up as in whatever. Go to google images and type in ugly wedding couple. Physically unattractive get together.
Sounds like you think that one of these women should be romantically interested in you because she isn't getting anywhere by demanding looks and you're smart enough to look at inner qualities instead of superficial ones.
Thanks!
So, you feel you're entitled to romantic interest even if a woman isn't attracted or interested in you in any way?
I wouldn't want to be with a man who likes me simply because I exist and own a vagina. I also don't feel entitled to romance because I exist. People look for a mix of superficial and inner qualities and what may work for one, doesn't work for another. I know that I don't find my best friends husband attractive in any way, shape or form...but she seems quite smitten with him and that's what matters in the end.
Body language, usually. Most neighbors, co-workers, or strangers don't hold hands or walk arm-in-arm, lean in and kiss each other. If you're paying attention you can usually tell who's a romantic couple and who's not.
WOW! I don't see good looking couples holding hands/walking arm in arm/kissing anymore.
Maybe it IS beneficial to be part of a plain looking romantic couple.
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