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I hav been dating this girl whom i met on the internet 3 months ago, we had sex the first night we met after dinner and we have continued to see each other ever since.
New years eve she invited me to a party and there were mostly guys there, we were dating for 6 weeks at the time and i had gone to the toilet for a while and when i came back, i see my girlfriend cuddling some other guy with her eyes closed. I left the party then returned as i wanted to give her another chance and she was drunk at the time.
Last week in Feb we decided to go to another party and she had gotten very drunk and was following another guy wherever he went and kept tryting to make eye contact with him, she was very drunk again and told me she loved me all night but also said this to me, she said that whatever happens tonight she just wanted me to know that she will always love me no matter what happened tonight.
I kept following her every move but i just wanted to leave her alone woith this guy so hat i could be sure she was gonna cheat, i just couldnt allow myself tpo leave the 2 of them together so i took her home and told what had happened the next day.
She apologised and said she had cried coz she did not want to lose me and she did not know why she did what she did..........
I am confused, i should just move on but i want to give her another try but feel so insecure from what has happened in the past, 2 parties and both times i found her trying it on with another guy.
Dont know if there is any help or if i should just leave while i can
She dropped her nickers on your first date, she has a drink problem, and flirts openly with others. Up to you whether she is someone you want to spend the rest of your life with or you have more self-respect that to be with her.
Unsolicited advice from an American woman: Dump her, she's not that into you no matter what she says. She's got some straying eyeballs which means when she has the possibility to land someone who she thinks is better than you, you're history. Sorry, nice guy, but that's what I think. You deserve better - now go find the better woman.
I know I wouldn't take that kind of treatment from a man...so why should you from a woman?
I think the OP probably has the answer. But you know sometimes, even though you know an answer, you may just want to rant about it, or perhaps have your own answer confirmed.
OK I already went through a bowl of pop corn reading this thread. Someone say something fun again so I can eat another bowl. Ah to the OP. Dump her. Do you really want to spend the rest of your life watching over someone that flaky and irresponsible?
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