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Old 02-24-2013, 07:58 AM
 
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Can't women usually tell when a guy wants her?
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Old 02-24-2013, 09:01 AM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Can't women usually tell when a guy wants her?
No, not all of us are Johnny Bravo's and Leisure Suit Larry's. We can be subtle and we can be shy, insecure etc too...women's intuition doesn't always work and women are people who vary as individuals.
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Old 02-24-2013, 10:38 AM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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stick your finger up his anus and see how he reacts.
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Old 02-24-2013, 11:12 AM
 
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No, not all of us are Johnny Bravo's and Leisure Suit Larry's. We can be subtle and we can be shy, insecure etc too...women's intuition doesn't always work and women are people who vary as individuals.
It's about nonverbal cues. How the guy looks at a woman; checking her body out; the eye contact.

For the OP: Either the guy isn't interested, is extremely shy, or gay. Invite him over, have some drinks, and make a move. Otherwise, it seems you will never know.
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Old 02-24-2013, 11:14 AM
 
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stick your finger up his anus and see how he reacts.
That is irrelevant regarding whether someone is attracted to the same sex.
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Old 02-24-2013, 09:08 PM
 
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Usually I can, but this one is an excepation. That is why I have the question.
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Old 02-25-2013, 08:13 PM
 
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You are probably right. I think I will ask him.

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It's about nonverbal cues. How the guy looks at a woman; checking her body out; the eye contact.

For the OP: Either the guy isn't interested, is extremely shy, or gay. Invite him over, have some drinks, and make a move. Otherwise, it seems you will never know.
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Old 02-25-2013, 08:35 PM
 
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I knew a guy from work. We work in the same city but not at the same site. We have seen each other for more than a year. He only asked me out for dinner after work once a week but never on weekends including Friday. He never calls me except the day before the day for dinner just to ask me if I want to go. We had dinner and always (no exception) went dutch. After dinner we sometimes went back to my apartment and watched TV together. We have never touched each other not even the hands, although he tried to sit close to me in the couch when watching TV. He sometimes invited me to a few parties hosted by his high school friends in town. He told me he goes to their guy's night out every Monday, which is a gathering with his high school male friends. He is in his mid forty and never gets married. He also told me that he has never had a girl friend. He said the longest dating time with a girl is a few months. We never talk about anything about our relationship, except one time (half a year after we started to do dinners) when I asked if he was ever in a relationship, he asked me how do I think of the relationship between he and me. I said I don’t think we are in a relationship but just hang out together and I am happy with that. I have noticed that he has some kind of close relationship with one of his high school friends, who is also never married and has no girl friend (except that he told me that RECENTLY that friend is dating a woman he met from Facebook). It seemed that they do a lot of things together. Their houses are a few miles apart. And I have noticed that he was excited and looked happy when that friend was around. From all his behaviors toward me and that friend, I sometimes doubted if he is straight. I don’t know how to check on that. What problem do you see in him? How can I find out if he is straight or not?
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Do you want to have a sexual relationship with him? If not MYOB until he brings it up.
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Old 02-26-2013, 07:48 AM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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21st century, darling, go for it, just be prepared to deal with the fallout.
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Old 02-26-2013, 01:25 PM
 
Location: Western Colorado
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These days, it seems that men who are homosexual aren't as reticent about disclosing it as they once were. If you would like your relationship to possibly move forward, you need to have an honest, direct conversation with him. If you are looking for a potential husband, you need to know this so that you can move on and not continue to date a man that you will have no future with.

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Excellent advice!
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