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Old 03-17-2013, 02:18 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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But why? I'd like to think if I were a guy and given a 2nd chance I'd try to jump on it....
Ummm........that prior failure will resonate with a man for a while. Sex is a big part of our pride and sucking at it, even one time, will sting for a long time.

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Anyways, did he take care of you? There are other ways to do that!
Hehehehe, oh yeah.
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Old 03-17-2013, 02:28 PM
 
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But why? I'd like to think if I were a guy and given a 2nd chance I'd try to jump on it....
Sometimes the biorhythms are at a low for whatever reason. He might want to "save up" for a few days to be fully charged for next time.
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Old 03-17-2013, 02:30 PM
 
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You can't pressure it into action! Anyways, did he take care of you? There are other ways to do that!
No, there was no 'taking care of me'.....
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Old 03-17-2013, 02:32 PM
 
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Sometimes the biorhythms are at a low for whatever reason. He might want to "save up" for a few days to be fully charged for next time.
Hmmm...well that doesn't make sense seeing as though one of the reasons he gave was that he 'shouldn't have waited so long' to do it....
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Old 03-17-2013, 02:33 PM
 
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Thank God, I thought all you women had disappeared.

Why is it that I can never meet women like you?

Anyway, thanks for restoring my faith in women.
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Old 03-17-2013, 02:39 PM
 
Location: USA
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So, I decided to give Guy #1 another chance. All of a sudden he's available on weekends now lol

Anyways we set a date to meet up over a week ago. In the meantime I was really excited about it, as he'd been talking it up daily, plus I'm really physically attracted to this one...

So after much anticipation...he shows up...I start to go down on him, and he **** in less than 5 minutes...then could not get it back up whatsoever. He kept saying it was too late at night, he shouldn't have waited so long to do it, etc etc etc...

After about a half hour of him trying to get back up (and many curse words in the process lol) he gave up and left me (not at my request... he just said he was useless and wasn't going to waste any more of my time) :/

So he texts me after to apologize and I said it was ok...I text him the next morning to say hi cuz I wanted to check in in him (was actually going to see if he wanted to try again that day) and no response whatsoever....unbelievable.
you just got played and he got what he wanted but you didn't. I've done it plenty of times with women. I don't think you are as attractive as you say you are..
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Old 03-17-2013, 02:39 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Hmmm...well that doesn't make sense seeing as though one of the reasons he gave was that he 'shouldn't have waited so long' to do it....
He may have "relieved" himself a bit during that waiting period. Once again from experience.
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Old 03-17-2013, 02:42 PM
 
Location: USA
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He may have "relieved" himself a bit during that waiting period. Once again from experience.
no thats not it he came and he left sounds like a guy lol.
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Old 03-17-2013, 02:44 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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So you gave a stranger a BJ and he left without paying ... or doing ANYthing for you, even in his flaccid state.

Are you sure you still want to do this?

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Old 03-17-2013, 02:45 PM
 
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you just got played and he got what he wanted but you didn't. I've done it plenty of times with women. I don't think you are as attractive as you say you are..
Your opinion, no offense taken here...
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