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This! I mean... we are asking primarily from the young man's POV right? Does he CARE that he is doing something taboo? Heck no. What he cares is that finally he is getting some, and it isn't costing him dearly in status points, dollars, sweat equity or any of the other myriad ways in which women his own age make him "work hard for the honey". In certain cultures a guy practically has to be a magician to get any, unless he was born an ALPHA MALE. Even alpha's don't get in an out as easily as they might like because when women get onto an alpha they don't let go easily. So... no, a guy who gets in with an older or even much older woman is too busy enjoying the NSA, blow your mind, fun and games to wonder or care about the effect it is having on spectators.
My 50-something former boss, who was extremely fit and very attractive, asked me to spend the weekend with her out-of-town.
I coyly and politely said, "sure," to not remotely express my incredible interest. But, yeah, I would have gone to town on her.
Unfortunately, she flaked. I think she was afraid of any professional implications, and it was admittedly a smart move on her part to retract. But, she knew how to flirt!
I just dont get why very young men are interested in dating women who are in their 40s and 50s. Can you guys explain it please.
The lure of easy sex. Easy, easy, easy sex. Thats it. THAT IS IT!!! Any and every "young man" who is interested in an older woman will tell you this. Only the OLD women would think its anything other than this.
The lure of easy sex. Easy, easy, easy sex. Thats it. THAT IS IT!!! Any and every "young man" who is interested in an older woman will tell you this. Only the OLD women would think its anything other than this.
That's right, ladies! Capablanca speaks for every single male in the world and has a psychic hotline into the mind of every 20something man. He is not in the least bit threatened or anything...I mean you'd be able to tell...there would be lots of sweeping statements, lots of caps and a whole bunch of exclamations meant to put you in your pla..........Oh wait.
Oh, and in case all that overemphasis didn't work, there's a little shame thrown in there. Just added insurance, don't'cha know. (Hence the "old" reference...)
Now get back in your respective places and be insecure and feel shamed and, well, old. Because then you'll be easier pickings for guys who have to resort to this kind of thing in order to make women feel insecure enough to date them...the guys that aren't the super-cuties you naturally want.
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Amazing how freaked out people get about stuff like this. You always know you've struck a nerve when someone starts pulling out what he assumes to be the insults (like "easy" and "old"). That's how I know my 9-year-old is really upset and insecure, too.
okay. what's your point? My point was: it looks like a joke all the way around for most of those people.
Big deal. So others think it looks funny, while the two involved have a great time.
I personally got over "zomg, what will other people think if I'm seen with him? He's not the perfect age/situation/looks for me" in about the 10th grade.
I just don't get the degree of fury/indignation/disgust people have over two adults getting it on.
Big deal. So others think it looks funny, while the two involved have a great time.
I personally got over "zomg, what will other people think if I'm seen with him? He's not the perfect age/situation/looks for me" in about the 10th grade.
I just don't get the degree of fury/indignation/disgust people have over two adults getting it on.
Far as I know people are expressing opinions on here. I think it's common sense to most people that if an older man/younger woman or older woman/younger man want to date -- that's not affecting anyone but them.
You said 'fury, indignation and disgust' I didn't. I said I USUALLY see those folks on both sides of that situation taking it like a joke or a sexual fetish situation. Contrary to popular belief, what you make of this and what what I make of it are likely not the same thing. As far as my thoughts regarding sex in general, you're not obligated to 'get' it. So if you don't, that's fine by me. I don't 'get' a lot of other people's views on it either. So we're even there.
The lure of easy sex. Easy, easy, easy sex. Thats it. THAT IS IT!!! Any and every "young man" who is interested in an older woman will tell you this. Only the OLD women would think its anything other than this.
You know what you are talking about and you aren't afraid to say it.
The lure of easy sex. Easy, easy, easy sex. Thats it. THAT IS IT!!! Any and every "young man" who is interested in an older woman will tell you this. Only the OLD women would think its anything other than this.
If we're talking young as in college aged(19,20,21,23,23 etc) then it's mostly sex
Older women tend to be easier then younger women. They care far less about being perceived as easy and they don't play the same games. Plus they're usually much better lovers
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So others think it looks funny, while the two involved have a great time.
