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I've been seeing this guy casually, I thought he just wanted to be friends with benefits or fbuddy whatever. (we're not even friends before)
but then he's been very acting weird.. I was trying to hold my feeling and not getting attatched, but then he's giving me mixed signals..
1.he always asks if I missed him, and tells me he did.
2.he sometimes just wants to hang out and having chill time without sex
3.he texts/calls me everyday
4.he gets extremely jealous and mad when I text with other guys
5.he became very cuddly, kisses my cheeks and forehead a lot randomly
6.he asked me out for movie and dinner night(usually we always hangout at his place..and if we go out, it's just for quick getting icecream stuff)
7.he actually told me that he likes me
8.he gave me funny nickname..altho I don't like it but he added only me as that weird nickname in his phone and everyone elses just its name
9.he's been only seeing me..no any other dates
10.he started to call me hon, baby (he's not the one who calls everyone baby easily)
11.he wants me to sleep over at his place even without sex(I was sick, not able to have it and he knew, but he still wanted me to stay over)
12.he said i'm his the other day when he got jealous over other guy
and few other things so on. my gut is telling me he started to like me, acting different, but I can't rely on my gut all the time..haha
when I asked him if we're fwb, he asked me if that's what I want... he didn't say like no we're exclusive..or something like that. He thinks I like this other guy and I never was open about my feelings to him so I don't know if that's why he's been holding it..or if it's just that he's not ready. he had bad clingy girlfriends prev relationships. told me he hates all dramas.
so do you guys think he likes me more? or he can just have no feelings but still act like that to keep me around?
I honestly don't understand your confusion, considering the thread you typed up.
Please read the thread you created. The answer is quite simple, and it is in the thread you wrote up.
I think this is why relationships are getting more complicated than I remember them being when I was in my early 20's.
I've been seeing this guy casually, I thought he just wanted to be friends with benefits or fbuddy whatever. (we're not even friends before)
but then he's been very acting weird.. I was trying to hold my feeling and not getting attatched, but then he's giving me mixed signals..
1.he always asks if I missed him, and tells me he did.
2.he sometimes just wants to hang out and having chill time without sex
3.he texts/calls me everyday
4.he gets extremely jealous and mad when I text with other guys
5.he became very cuddly, kisses my cheeks and forehead a lot randomly
6.he asked me out for movie and dinner night(usually we always hangout at his place..and if we go out, it's just for quick getting icecream stuff)
7.he actually told me that he likes me
8.he gave me funny nickname..altho I don't like it but he added only me as that weird nickname in his phone and everyone elses just its name
9.he's been only seeing me..no any other dates
10.he started to call me hon, baby (he's not the one who calls everyone baby easily)
11.he wants me to sleep over at his place even without sex(I was sick, not able to have it and he knew, but he still wanted me to stay over)
12.he said i'm his the other day when he got jealous over other guy
and few other things so on. my gut is telling me he started to like me, acting different, but I can't rely on my gut all the time..haha
when I asked him if we're fwb, he asked me if that's what I want... he didn't say like no we're exclusive..or something like that. He thinks I like this other guy and I never was open about my feelings to him so I don't know if that's why he's been holding it..or if it's just that he's not ready. he had bad clingy girlfriends prev relationships. told me he hates all dramas.
so do you guys think he likes me more? or he can just have no feelings but still act like that to keep me around?
question is do u like him or just the attention ur getting from him? If i were him i'd be pulling way back at least initially.
Number 7, He stated he likes you. The rest alone would have said it all.
If you are both in an FWB and one person is not on the same page someones feelings wil get hurt. Talk it out. He sounds on the surface like possibly a good guy.
You both may not know exactly what you want, but find out what you don't want. Good luck with everything.
OP: just curious, do you also like and/or love him?
I think he really, really likes you, and cares for you, in a true romantic, non-casual way...if you care about him that way too, I would say go for it!
You fail. You ask if he likes you and then you write that.
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Originally Posted by syw0806
when I asked him if we're fwb, he asked me if that's what I want
This proves that he wants a real relationship with you. Any guy who wanted to be just a FWB with you would have said "yes" off the bat. But not only did the guy turn the question around on you, he also has done numbers 1 through 12 of your list. Biggest one being him not minding you staying over while you were SICK and NOT HAVING SEX.
Damn people these days needing everyone to hold their hands through a thought process to make a logical decision.
Last edited by ja1myn; 03-07-2013 at 07:21 PM..
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