People on dating websites: "I stay busy and I don't have time" (woman, children)
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I've seen that a lot too. It's good to have interests, hobbies, a social life, etc. but I'm put off by people who act like they are so busy they don't have a free night ever. Why would I want to date someone who doesn't have time for me?
Hmm...maybe they use that phrase as a "status symbol," as in: "I've got more important things to do than talk to some stranger so don't waste my time with bs;" OR it could be that they have some insecurity about having to use a dating website to find a date (for whatever reason) and they use that phrase to make themselves feel better about having their profile up, as in: "I'm not some loser who needs to go online to find dates it's just that my life is so busy I can't find a date the traditional way."
I'm not saying people on dating sites are losers but I think there is still a fair amount of people who believe that.
People actually put that on their dating site? I think it's because many of us think being busy is a purely good thing and represents someone who has a lot going on for them. But that's really silly to put that on a dating site lol.
They're probably afraid to make themselves seem boring. On the few occasions I've used a dating site I've always stated very clearly: "I am dull." And yet people reading my profile never seem to believe me . And then they get mad when they find out I'm exceedingly boring. I wish there was a dating site for people who could write things like:
"You could call me but I probably won't answer for like a month and then only when I'm desperate. I'm boring and hate human beings. I'm bitter, angry and in debt. I don't exercise, I don't follow politics and I'm not a geek."
I seen some girls say..........."I have 2 jobs" like they are bragging about it.
Two jobs mean you are struggling
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. And then they get mad when they find out I'm exceedingly boring. I wish there was a dating site for people who could write things like:
