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Old 03-11-2013, 06:58 PM
 
Location: South-Western New Jersey
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Ever tell a guy that you weren't interested in him if you actually were.




or tell him you're only interested in several different guys and say you were only interested in them but not interested in anyone else. (But actually have feelings for the guy's name who was asking)

if confused heres a rather odd example:

*girl has problem with ex due to drugs*
guy: so why not open your options to different guys rather than your exes and the one guy who friendzoned you?
girl: just not interested in another else but them.

Best example i can think of. But if you've actually had feelings for someone when they asked and you told them everyone else but them. Why/why not?
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Old 03-11-2013, 07:02 PM
 
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Sounds like games to me. Take what she says at face value and move on. If she gets angry because you're not chasing her, tell her why and maybe she'll learn something.
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Old 03-11-2013, 07:08 PM
 
Location: South-Western New Jersey
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Also i am not stating this as my interest in a woman, moreover as a "would you do this" or "would you not" and an explanation.
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Old 03-11-2013, 07:10 PM
 
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I use to do that in middle school and early high school. But I don't play games now...they're exhausting and I really want sincerity in my life. So I give that.
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Old 03-11-2013, 07:12 PM
 
Location: North NJ by way of Brooklyn, NY
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I wouldn't, but then again I'm not like most women. I tend to be a straight shooter, and if I'm interested in someone, I have no qualms about admitting such.

If someone is not interested in you and wants to live in the past or stay with exes because they think it's the safe bet and comfortable, let them. Any energy you put in trying to analyze her words are just going to be a waste of time.
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Old 03-11-2013, 07:12 PM
 
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It's more to do with doubting there own dating abilities. They can't help what they are attracted too; however, what they are attracted to often hurts them. He or she will have to want to open up to new experiences for things to change. Until then, expect them to keep making choices that hurt them.
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Old 03-11-2013, 07:55 PM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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No... If I'm interested in him I'd tell him to give me a call, maybe we can have some cotton candy sometime.
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Old 03-11-2013, 07:58 PM
 
Location: South-Western New Jersey
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No... If I'm interested in him I'd tell him to give me a call, maybe we can have some cotton candy sometime.
women who are upfront
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Old 03-11-2013, 08:20 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Yes, but that's only because I *knew* they were bad news. I've been attracted to a few guys that were just a bad idea to date in general (into drugs, heavy drinkers, known cheaters but had other redeeming qualities) and I'm just not interested in becoming a mother figure or 'rescuing' a man who will probably just screw me over in the end.

So... yes, but under certain circumstances.
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