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Well, you aren't even getting benefits yet. If you want to find out whether you're in the FRIEND zone, then for Pete's sake don't go to his house and make out all night. GO OUT somewhere together, get to know each other, and then let some sexual tension build throughout the evening.
So I did end up texting him, we ended up meeting up last night. We are both grad students and on spring break so why not?
I ended up spending the night, but nothing happened. We just cuddled and made out...again. I'm not really into sex without a relationship so that's not going to happen unless he wants to get more serious.
I left early this morning because I have a lot of work to do, but he begged me to stay. He kissed me goodbye and went back to bed. The thing is...I haven't heard from him all day!! I mean, another great night and then I don't hear a peep?! Am I being overly sensitive? overly anxious? Am I over analyzing? I texted him a few hours a ago and he responded but he's not texting like he used to. Then again he has a business trip tomorrow, so he could be preparing for that?
I guess I'm just going to lay low for awhile. I at least initiated conversation today. I'm starting to get concerned he's only looking for a cuddle buddy? Weird.
He is a cancer...if anyone is into astrology, maybe that has something to do with it?
Maybe he's just not a big texter. I would take more into account how he acts with you in person than his texting...
So I did end up texting him, we ended up meeting up last night. We are both grad students and on spring break so why not?
I ended up spending the night, but nothing happened. We just cuddled and made out...again. I'm not really into sex without a relationship so that's not going to happen unless he wants to get more serious.
I left early this morning because I have a lot of work to do, but he begged me to stay. He kissed me goodbye and went back to bed. The thing is...I haven't heard from him all day!! I mean, another great night and then I don't hear a peep?! Am I being overly sensitive? overly anxious? Am I over analyzing? I texted him a few hours a ago and he responded but he's not texting like he used to. Then again he has a business trip tomorrow, so he could be preparing for that?
I guess I'm just going to lay low for awhile. I at least initiated conversation today. I'm starting to get concerned he's only looking for a cuddle buddy? Weird.
He is a cancer...if anyone is into astrology, maybe that has something to do with it?
Did you let him know you enjoyed staying over?
Some (the majority of, all) guys have delicate egos, and it sounds like you may be with one. He's very probably waiting by his phone thinking "WHY ISN'T SHE TEXTING ME?!" and wondering if you're truly interested or just wanting a friend with cuddlefits.
Life's too short for these games.
If you're okay with him possibly losing interest and finding someone else due to thinking you don't care, aren't interested, then have fun with the texting games.
BTW - I'm a cancer guy, and astrology has nothing to do with it. You're both simply two people who believe the other person needs to chase them, then wondering why nothing is happening..
Goodluck.
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