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You can cover yourself by saying something like "if you are tied up with other things, we can reschedule for some other day."
Giving her an out if she really isnt looking forward to meeting. The last thing you want is to go out with someone that isnt fully invested. No need to over analyze things...
Well I responded letting her know 8pm is fine. But if I get another text asking can it be 9pm My respond will then be
"well that's a little late for me to leaving my place so you can meet me at my APT and i pay for your parking"
So what if I say ok and then in 2 hours she says........."can it be 9pm?
At that point you can either agree or say no, let's try for another time. I really liked someone and he did this to me, but he did it right before the date and did not set a specific time to reschedule. Just assumed I'd wait for his call later that evening. I cancelled on him at that point. As adults some of us need to learn to say no. But more important, some of us need to learn to lighten up.
I'd agree to 9 if she pushes it back, especially with advance notice.
I wouldn't let her push it back a third time, though.
You obviously have no experience with women. Most are behind schedule or running late.
Hahah. Some truth to that, and Im a woman. OP, I dont think the pushing it back to 8pm is a big deal. Sh*t happens..people get tied up. I agree you should relax with that. Now, IF she wants to push it back to 9pm, then I agree with your decision of telling her if she is tied up y'all can reschedule. However, let HER come to YOU after that. Dont you suggest ANYTHING. If she really wants to go out with you, then she will make an effort to reschedule with you.
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