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You care more about their feelings than your on.
You find yourself thinking about them and smiling.
You miss them as soon as you leave their side.
You think of them when a certain song comes on.
You find yourself doing little things especially for them, just because.
You want to be a better person because you want them to think highly of you.
You do the right thing, thinking of them and what it might mean long term.
Your eyes light up when they are in your presence (People notice when you are in love).
You feel a sense of peace and contentment when you are hanging out with them...Doesn't matter what you are. doing...everything becomes more interesting when they are involved.
You want the best for them...Which translates to the best for you both as a couple.
You take extra care w/ your grooming when you are meeting up with them, because it matters.
You start thinking an making decisions, even when alone...that are future oriented....I.E. You can't imagine taking a promotion that moves you away from them, unless you know they would want to go to.
And, everything varies....it is individual to each person...But, essentialy what is important to them becomes important to you.
What a lovely list, I totally agree.
I love that my man and I can not talk for hours (watching a movie, reading) and it's not awkward, just relaxing.
We all have pet peeves that our mates do that irk us. When you realize that you love your mate more because of those pet peeves, you've found a deep love.
To clarify: She likes to leave the dirty dishes on the table after dinner. It bugs you. In time you realize that's part of who she is, so you love her more because of it. No matter what she does, you love her more for it. That's love.
Love is partly a choice. I believe in love at first sight having experienced it not once but twice in my life thus far. However, people sometimes say its bs because they have never been in the right state of mind to experience it. You've got to be open. And you just know, for me it's a feeling of being magnetized to that person. You always (as a female, though I'm sure some men go through this too) want to be around that person. You just can't get enough of them. I furthermore believe in love at first sight because the two times it happened to me were the longest relationships I had and worked the best. The one time I was in love and I remember rather than at first sight he grew on me, I remember making the choice to let him in to my heart. That was the most I've ever been hurt in my life. But love is worth the vulnerability it brings. It is what life is all about. When you are in love everything is easy and bright and happy. I wish you all true love
oh and it's a comfort thing. You are happy to go home to that person, rather than dreading it or simply having to run home to fu*k then all night, when it's love not simply infatuation , attraction or lust.
Last edited by lastwomanstanding; 03-24-2013 at 08:17 PM..
Reason: Got carried away with my romantic thoughts and forgot to answer the question lol.
When u see them cry for the first time your heart starts beating faster and you want to just grab them, hold them and never let go. While you are holding them its like someone punched you in the gut and ripped your heart out.
You REALLY want to make them happy and that feeling never ceases.
I'm finding myself in that state of mind. Wow..true!
..and I agree with a lot of this, too....
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You care more about their feelings than your on.
You find yourself thinking about them and smiling.
You miss them as soon as you leave their side.
You think of them when a certain song comes on.
You find yourself doing little things especially for them, just because.
You want to be a better person because you want them to think highly of you.
You do the right thing, thinking of them and what it might mean long term.
Your eyes light up when they are in your presence (People notice when you are in love).
You feel a sense of peace and contentment when you are hanging out with them...Doesn't matter what you are. doing...everything becomes more interesting when they are involved.
You want the best for them...Which translates to the best for you both as a couple.
You take extra care w/ your grooming when you are meeting up with them, because it matters.
You start thinking an making decisions, even when alone...that are future oriented....I.E. You can't imagine taking a promotion that moves you away from them, unless you know they would want to go to.
And, everything varies....it is individual to each person...But, essentialy what is important to them becomes important to you.
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