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Writing down your feelings for a therapy session would be a very helpful thing for you.
Actually communicating these feelings to her is not going to help you or her in any way. I hope you come to understand that.
I agree with the first, but disagree with the second.
I personally, have a desire to express to her why she is the only one I would ever consider. However, as others have said, right now may not be the best time to do so. I do hope to eventually tell her how I truly feel. Yet, it may be years before I have the opportunity or the time is appropriate.
I agree with the first, but disagree with the second.
I personally, have a desire to express to her why she is the only one I would ever consider. However, as others have said, right now may not be the best time to do so. I do hope to eventually tell her how I truly feel. Yet, it may be years before I have the opportunity or the time is appropriate.
Again, you're putting your feelings and needs over hers.
It makes NO sense why you hold her in such high regard, to the exclusion of any other, when she can't stand you, wants no part of you, has felt that way throughout most of high school. She doesn't want you now and she never will. Even if there wasn't any history or animosity or whatever it is she feels, it still doesn't mean she'd be interested in you.
Everything you write about here is with an agenda to try to make her like you. You are never going to be with her and that's something you need to address because a 3 year obsession has gone on 2.5 years too long.
I agree with the first, but disagree with the second.
I personally, have a desire to express to her why she is the only one I would ever consider. However, as others have said, right now may not be the best time to do so. I do hope to eventually tell her how I truly feel. Yet, it may be years before I have the opportunity or the time is appropriate.
Awesome. Now don't you have homework? You've been at this all day ...
Again, you're putting your feelings and needs over hers.
She doesn't want you now and she never will. You are never going to be with her and that's something you need to address because a 3 year obsession has gone on 2.5 years too long.
I disagree with this statement. How would expressing a heartfelt opinion be "putting my feelings and needs over hers" ? That statement of yours simply does not make any sense.
I disagree with this statement. How would expressing a heartfelt opinion be "putting my feelings and needs over hers" ? That statement of yours simply does not make any sense.
Disagreeing doesn't make me wrong.
She wants nothing to do with you, avoids you, frowns at you when she sees you, and you want to profess your love. It's not me that isn't making sense.
Given the fact, that you have never met this girl personally, I can see why you do not understand my feelings for her.
No one can understand your feelings for her. And I don't need to know her personally.
All of your threads and comments boil down to this:
She doesn't like you and you are obsessed with her and willing to forego every other female in the world if you can't have the girl who doesn't like you.
The fact that you can't see that this is a problem is very alarming.
No one can understand your feelings for her. And I don't need to know her personally.
All of your threads and comments boil down to this:
She doesn't like you and you are obsessed with her and willing to forego every other female in the world if you can't have the girl who doesn't like you.
The fact that you can't see that this is a problem is very alarming.
The only advice that he welcomes or listens to is advice that promotes more contact with her. He ignores every person who tells him that he needs help, that he should leave her alone, that his obsession is unhealthy, that he will traumatize her, etc. It's sad but I think he's a hopeless cause that will probably get into trouble.
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