What are his intentions? (First stages of dating)

[lovesMountains]

Originally Posted by Unigirl21

But it's like he just suddenly stuck his tongue in my mouth, there wasn't really any romance in that moment. And since he didn't really do any typically romantic gestures during the date I have the feeling he only likes me that way.. Too early to judge though?

Well, you should always follow your gut instincts.

If you got the feeling he was moving straight to showing a sexual interest only, just keep your guard up a bit.

But it could be he was stupid enough to think doing the tongue thing WAS an attempt at being romantic, lol.

Just give it time. Another date or two and you'll get a sense of where things are going because if all he really wants is sex he'll start to get impatient.

[picklejuice]

Originally Posted by lovesMountains

Well, you should always follow your gut instincts.

If you got the feeling he was moving straight to showing a sexual interest only, just keep your guard up a bit.

But it could be he was stupid enough to think doing the tongue thing WAS an attempt at being romantic, lol.

Just give it time. Another date or two and you'll get a sense of where things are going because if all he really wants is sex he'll start to get impatient.

Yeah, 'loves' has it right.

And I'll add that if a fella is just about getting in your panties he'll auto add anger to the display of impatience.

If you don't wish to be just a use for pleasure, walk away if he displays those two emotions with you.