Why is sex considered a basic need? (hubby, Latin, spouse)
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Sex is not a basic need. I was born in 1954 and I never heard that until the last few years when porn became so popular. The sex business is big in marketing and porn has just devoured so many. With sexual addiction they like to say that it is harder to stop than say drug addiction because sex is a basic need. I thought, you can't be serious. So many addicted to porn are also addicted to masturbation so it seems more savory to say that sex is a basic need and this also gives some false permission for cheaters since after all, "Sex is a basic need." A lack of personality responsibility leads to sex being said to be a "basic" need, just another excuse for poor behavior.
He is saying there is no need for sex, the goes on to say he masturbates twice a day. His whole argument is that he does not need sex. Sorry, masturbating twice a day, while not sex, suggests a need for something. It kills his premise.
So many addicted to porn are also addicted to masturbation so it seems more savory to say that sex is a basic need and this also gives some false permission for cheaters since after all, "Sex is a basic need." A lack of personality responsibility leads to sex being said to be a "basic" need, just another excuse for poor behavior.
No , you have it the wrong way around my friend.
Poor behavior is portrayed by someone who thinks that 'cheating' is actually a real concept.
Man does not cheat when he has multiple partners, quite the contrary in fact. He is actually just expressing his natural inclination, given to him by his DNA.
I'm 52 and a virgin. The other day I was listening to a specialist saying that sex was needed as food or sleep.
I've always lived quite a normal life without it and never noticed any difference in my health from that. If I didn't eat or sleep, I'm sure there would be consequences.
Doesn't that preconceived notion that sex is a basic need sound ridiculous to you?
That fact you're a contented 52 year old virgin puts you in a VERY small minority. For the vast majority of people, sex is a basic need, physically, psychologically and emotionally. Yes, we can survive without it. But not happily.
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