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Haha before they were just friends went on 1 date and the guy admitted he wanted friends with benefits only and not a relationship so my friend liked this guy so much she said ok let's be just friends and then she says well since its been a while since I've had sex I am just going to do the friends with benefits thing too so then that came and then they started hanging out and he bought her gifts took her out to eat or her him out to eat etc.
And now after 3-4 months later they are finally an official couple. And she is afraid to the max that even she messes up even once and this guy leaves she cannot accept that. She NEEDS this guy in her life.
Yikes. Clinger alert. She sounds desperate as hell.
Sounds like a control freak in progress. Tell your friend to 86 this loser. If he can't accept her for who she is, then its never going to work out. He will try to find her replacement to meet his "standards" sooner or later.
I keep telling her what this guy is about but she won't hear it so.....
And NO I do not know this guy. My friend met this guy at a family get together. The funny thing is that this guy is a cousin of another family of this other family member type of thing.
Haha before they were just friends went on 1 date and the guy admitted he wanted friends with benefits only and not a relationship so my friend liked this guy so much she said ok let's be just friends and then she says well since its been a while since I've had sex I am just going to do the friends with benefits thing too so then that came and then they started hanging out and he bought her gifts took her out to eat or her him out to eat etc.
And now after 3-4 months later they are finally an official couple. And she is afraid to the max that even she messes up even once and this guy leaves she cannot accept that. She NEEDS this guy in her life.
Tell your friend she can do a lot better. First, she needs to get her self-esteem in order and not be so desperate to be in a relationship. Because if a man can't accept you for who you are, then he is worthless as a lifetime partner!
Haha before they were just friends went on 1 date and the guy admitted he wanted friends with benefits only and not a relationship so my friend liked this guy so much she said ok let's be just friends and then she says well since its been a while since I've had sex I am just going to do the friends with benefits thing too so then that came and then they started hanging out and he bought her gifts took her out to eat or her him out to eat etc.
And now after 3-4 months later they are finally an official couple. And she is afraid to the max that even she messes up even once and this guy leaves she cannot accept that. She NEEDS this guy in her life.
My friend's boyfriend disliked how she had several tattoos on herself, not TOO many just a few. One tiny one on her wrist, and 2 others on her back. He had told her one night that he disliked girls with tattoos and she could not get anymore because he disliked them.
So yesturday when her and I were at a friend's house she told our friend that her boyfriend disliked tattoos and how she couldn't get anymore.
To me I think thats dumb if a guy told me to not get tattoos even though I loved them and surly wanted more, I would still get them no matter what they told me.
This guy has also told my friend that he dislikes girls with dark hair and prefers blondes so my friend is having her girl go back to its natural blonde color this summer.
What do you think of this situation?
What do I think? I think your friends boyfriend is a total dork.
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