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You crack me up that is one of the funniest things i have heard in a long time keep it comin
alphafox: Your man is not right I would much much much rather be doing it than watching it hands down or around or...????>>>>?//./..???? ill shut up now
Trying to start what exactly? It's my first post cos I only just joined up having googled for others with similar experiences to mine.
Cheers for your first opinion tho.
Hi guys - read this thread with interest as I currently have some issues with my boyfriend looking at internet porn.
I'm 30, slim, fit and not unattractive, at least that's what others tell me. I'm open to trying new things sexually with my man (including watching or looking at porn together as an enhancement) but the last 2 years he has barely paid attention to me. I asked him many times if there was anything wrong (he said no) put it down to him having a lower sex drive than me. Now I have discovered he's registered on porn sites and has just been sitting in his home office masturbating instead of sleeping with me when I am in bed sexually frustrated! I've used porn myself to try and bridge the gap the times he hasn't wanted to have sex, but since he still insists he still loves me and finds me sexually attractive I'm a bit confused.
Any opinions from a guy's perspective? Any of you girls had the same thing?
Am wondering whether just to call it a day as I don't think he's being honest.
Alpha, this happened to a friend of mine. It started right after they got married. They only had sex one time in their marriage which produced a child. We joke with her and tell her that they never had sex it was just the immaculate conception. Anyway, this led to their divorce after she caught him masturbating in the bathroom several times (after turning her down for sex), finding credit card bills run up into the thousands from 900 numbers, porn in the car, etc. etc. Hopefully your man can get the help he needs before you finally get fed up and leave him.
Thanks MJB. We have managed to sleep together more than once in the last while but I can't get my head around why he would turn down someone he says he is attracted to in favour of internet pics, especially when I have repeatedly asked if there's something he'd like to try that we never have and he's always said no. I don't think he's spending money on it but even so, to me it doesn't add up. He says 'all guys do it and most of them would hide it from their partners' and thinks its none of my business which is why I'm asking you on here. Thanks for the input! :-) (only input i'm getting at the mo...)
Yes, some women have interest in it. I can't speak for all women. I, personally, am not compelled to surf the web for hardcore XXX sites or any nonsense like that when I'm online, but it does stimulate some females.
Thanks MJB. We have managed to sleep together more than once in the last while but I can't get my head around why he would turn down someone he says he is attracted to in favour of internet pics, especially when I have repeatedly asked if there's something he'd like to try that we never have and he's always said no. I don't think he's spending money on it but even so, to me it doesn't add up. He says 'all guys do it and most of them would hide it from their partners' and thinks its none of my business which is why I'm asking you on here. Thanks for the input! :-) (only input i'm getting at the mo...)
Well, I'd agree on the hiding it part as who really would be proud of this.... As far as choosing to surf internet porn instead of being with a willing wife who has expressed interest multiple times and the wish to try other things, I'm unsure.
There is a possibility that he's ashamed to ask or tell you what he "wants to try"....
He says 'all guys do it and most of them would hide it from their partners' and thinks its none of my business which is why I'm asking you on here. Thanks for the input! :-) (only input i'm getting at the mo...)
Even if a lot of guys **** to porn, I would hazard a guess that most of them wouldn't use it as a substitute for a warm, willing person with whom they share their lives.
As I said upthread, I don't have a problem with my husband looking at porn, and we watch it together. The only time it would be a problem is if it became a substitute for the real thing. This would be your situation.
Is there any possibility he would agree to counseling with you? You don't have to present it as counseling for a problem that he has. You can say you're having a problem dealing with all of this, and would like for both of you to go. After all, that's the truth.
If he's not willing to try counseling, and doesn't change his behavior, then I would strongly suggest considering whether you want to continue the relationship.
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