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Old 04-05-2013, 05:33 AM
 
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Default Why do men like to stare at women, but not approach?

I'm always noticed men staring, but never approach is it because I look away and act aloof? I also noticed married men looking, but why do they want me look at them and smile and they think they still have it going on. One time this guy was looking at me and I looked up at him and then he turned away quickly like he was embarrassed because he was looking. Do some men don't like getting caught staring?
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Old 04-05-2013, 05:39 AM
 
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For me if I have to go out of my way to look at a girl then chances are she's out of my league and thus I think she's going to reject me, so I don't approach. I hardly approach girls because I don't handle rejection well, but I'll go out of my way to give an attractive girl a glance but you can't really get rejected doing that.
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Old 04-05-2013, 05:43 AM
 
Location: Emerald Coast, FL
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I'm sure many enjoy seeing a beautiful woman, but most are afraid to approach or think the situation would surely lead to rejection if they did. But it's still enjoyable to look. Most married men also appreciate a beautiful woman, but of course won't and can't approach (unless they're that kind) and are embarassed to be caught looking (most of their wives would not approve).
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Old 04-05-2013, 05:46 AM
 
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I'm always noticed men staring, but never approach is it because I look away and act aloof?
That would explain it. They may be taking it as a sign that you're not interested, so they don't approach you.

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I also noticed married men looking, but why do they want me look at them and smile and they think they still have it going on. One time this guy was looking at me and I looked up at him and then he turned away quickly like he was embarrassed because he was looking. Do some men don't like getting caught staring?
That may be the reason. It could stroke their egos to think that someone other than their wives find them attractive.
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Old 04-05-2013, 05:48 AM
 
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I also noticed men smiling at other men when they see hot women. Is it almost like they look at each other like oh my god she's so hot. Do men really do that. This what i see at their place of work.
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Old 04-05-2013, 06:25 AM
 
Location: Colorado
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Yes men do that. Did you just crawl out under a rock? Believe or not women do it too.
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Old 04-05-2013, 06:47 AM
 
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I'm always noticed men staring, but never approach is it because I look away and act aloof? I also noticed married men looking, but why do they want me look at them and smile and they think they still have it going on. One time this guy was looking at me and I looked up at him and then he turned away quickly like he was embarrassed because he was looking. Do some men don't like getting caught staring?
What were you wearing? Seriously! We're you revealing in a naughty way?
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Old 04-05-2013, 06:55 AM
 
Location: 20 years from now
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It really isn't that complicated. Sometimes you may see a attractive woman and just enjoy a look or two, without wanting to date, marry, or, sleep with her.
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Old 04-05-2013, 07:06 AM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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Because most will get rejected.
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Old 04-05-2013, 07:12 AM
 
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u can approach too you know
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