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Old 04-10-2013, 02:43 PM
 
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I've been doing the online dating thing for a while and I was ready to give up when I meet this awesome guy with this great connection. Well halfway into our first date he tells me that he's Ina miserable relationship. After being upset but still understanding he then calls and ends it.
Well the next day he texts me and says hes got his bags packed but may end having to move to another state.
I like him and I would love to pursue things he obviously felt the same way otherwise he wouldn't have done what he did.
I'm at a loss on what to do or think?
Any advice?
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Old 04-10-2013, 02:46 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Find someone else.
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Old 04-10-2013, 02:48 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Dramaaaaaa.

Move on.
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Old 04-10-2013, 02:49 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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So ... he was going on dates while he was in a relationship and you want to be his rebound after "knowing" him for how long?

May I interest you in a mail-ordered husband?
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Old 04-10-2013, 02:50 PM
 
Location: Alaska
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Do not let him move in with you and do not move to another state for him. You can wait and see what might develop, but be prepared to move on.
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Old 04-10-2013, 02:52 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth
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Originally Posted by vetony View Post
I've been doing the online dating thing for a while and I was ready to give up when I meet this awesome guy with this great connection. Well halfway into our first date he tells me that he's Ina miserable relationship. After being upset but still understanding he then calls and ends it.
Well the next day he texts me and says hes got his bags packed but may end having to move to another state.
I like him and I would love to pursue things he obviously felt the same way otherwise he wouldn't have done what he did.
I'm at a loss on what to do or think?
Any advice?
Better you found out now what he is, and move on.
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Old 04-10-2013, 03:17 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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Let me give you some really honest advice. If you find it a crippling diappointment that things aren't going to work out with a guy you went out with ONE time, then you shouldn't be dating. Also halfway through the date when he told you he's actually in a relationship is when you should have walked out of the date and deleted his number. Being miserable in a relationship means get out of the relationship, not look for dates online while you are still in a relationship. Why would you continue to have contact with this creep?
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Old 04-10-2013, 03:22 PM
 
Location: IN A COOKIE JAR
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May I interest you in a mail-ordered husband?
We know of an adorable Duck that comes at a fairly reasonable rate, plus you get a pair Jimmy Choo shoes if you purchase by midnight tonight. JK
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