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Old 04-14-2013, 09:48 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I think it's too soon just because 5-6 weeks and only 4 dates isn't a very long time to have known and really interacted with someone.

So, because you're asking for opinion, I wouldn't have done it.


I didn't pick up on this until you mentioned it.

I would think the guy would have asked her out more often if he was so into her.

As to the question, yes it may have been too soon, and it may not have been, we don't even know the guy.

I would caution you to wait for sex until you feel YOU know the guy, and because you are asking this question, you don't seem to.
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Old 04-14-2013, 09:51 PM
 
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I've had sex with this guy yesterday. I know him for about 5-6 weeks. We spent the whole day together. We went hiking in the morning then had lunch. We went bar hopping after, then we chilled at his place. We had dinner out then he dropped me off at my house at midnight.

He's a really cool guy. I would say he's one of the nicest ones that I've met so far. Plus he has this really gorgeous body that I couldn't resist .

Now, I'm worried I might have given it up too soon. What do you guys think?

I SLEPT WITH HIM ON OUR FOURTH DATE not the on the first date. I KNOW HIM FOR ABOUT 5-6 WEEKS, dating him. Is that too soon to have sex..? Please let's stick to the topic. I'm not asking about sleeping on the first date or the first day of meeting him. Thanks.
No, I think you slept with him at a very realistic timeframe. You like each other, have known each other 5-6 weeks, have shared info about yourself to each other and had a really good day together. I don't think that was too soon, nor too late.
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Old 04-14-2013, 09:51 PM
 
Location: DC
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I would caution you to wait for sex until you feel YOU know the guy, and because you are asking this question, you don't seem to.
Often when you DO feel like you know a guy, it turns out you don't.

That throws another wrench in the dating game.
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Old 04-14-2013, 09:53 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Often when you DO feel like you know a guy, it turns out you don't.

That throws another wrench in the dating game.
Yeah, but I've always been a pretty good judge of character, but there are some good liars out there.
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Old 04-14-2013, 11:37 PM
 
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I didn't pick up on this until you mentioned it.

I would think the guy would have asked her out more often if he was so into her.

As to the question, yes it may have been too soon, and it may not have been, we don't even know the guy.

I would caution you to wait for sex until you feel YOU know the guy, and because you are asking this question, you don't seem to.
For the month that we met he has made plans with his friends almost every week to go on trips. He was trying to fit me in his schedule. A few times he asked me out, I didn't go out because I was busy. We didn't spend much more time together not because he didn't ask me more often its because I refused to hang out with him often. He sent a text today btw.
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Old 04-14-2013, 11:50 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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For the month that we met he has made plans with his friends almost every week to go on trips. He was trying to fit me in his schedule. A few times he asked me out, I didn't go out because I was busy. We didn't spend much more time together not because he didn't ask me more often its because I refused to hang out with him often. He sent a text today btw.

From the sounds of all this, it sounds like you're kind of the bad catch here. I think this guy is going to look at this and say "I should have ran"
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Old 04-14-2013, 11:59 PM
 
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My head is spinning after reading this whole thread. Keeping letting him bone you or don't keep letting him bone you. Simple. Let others bone you at the same time. You're not exclusive to just him.
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Old 04-15-2013, 04:00 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Only time will tell. Have sex frequently and treat him indifferently until the night he says he loves you.
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Old 04-15-2013, 06:43 AM
 
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Only time will tell. Have sex frequently and treat him indifferently until the night he says he loves you.
LOL. WTF. It depends on person's view of intimacy. Like me, I told my then BF now husband - if I sleep with you it means we are in a relationship and relationship to me is either we move in together or get married. So he married me after only months of dating - W.I.N.!!

Like honestly how can you let someone enter you and NOT have the guts to have 'the talk' of exclusivity.

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Old 04-15-2013, 08:28 AM
 
Location: Austintown, OH
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Its only too soon if you weren't ready.
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