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Old 04-14-2013, 07:36 PM
 
Location: DC
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Let's talk about haptics. What kind or what areas do you respond to most by a potential lover, a partner, a spouse? Have your preferences changed over time through different relationships or remained consistent? Have they changed within a single long-term relationship?

There are a lot of different physical dynamics that get brought up in this forum, from being too clingy to not experiencing enough physical interactions, and of course that splits into touch involving loved ones and touch involving paid loved ones. Here are some fun statistics that can be debated: 10 Psychological Effects of Nonsexual Touch ? PsyBlog

And for the sake of keeping this thread PG13 we can all agree that everyone likes a pat on the (other) head or their kitty tickled from time to time. Now that we have that out of the way...let's hear your thoughts.

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Old 04-14-2013, 07:39 PM
 
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I'm extremely ticklish but I like my non-sexual touches anywhere but the genitals.
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Old 04-14-2013, 07:40 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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my hands
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Old 04-14-2013, 07:41 PM
 
Location: DC
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I'm extremely ticklish but I like my non-sexual touches anywhere but the genitals.
I didn't have tickling in mind when I posted this, but can I say how much I hate being tickled?? Do you enjoy it? It feels like my soul is being sucked out of my ribs/toes/whatever ticklish area of me is being victimized. But yet it still makes me laugh?

I clearly have an unhealthy relationship with tickling.
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Old 04-14-2013, 07:42 PM
 
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I didn't have tickling in mind when I posted this, but can I say how much I hate being tickled?? Do you enjoy it? It feels like my soul is being sucked out of my ribs/toes/whatever ticklish area of me is being victimized. But yet it still makes me laugh?
this made me laugh hard. lmao
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Old 04-14-2013, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I like my back, legs, shoulders rubbed . Like my hair touched. Hands caressed.
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Old 04-14-2013, 07:43 PM
 
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Dude, it's gonna be tough to keep this one PG-13.
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Old 04-14-2013, 07:45 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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Honestly, I have no idea. I haven't been touched much. CRYING FACE.
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Old 04-14-2013, 07:45 PM
 
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Like my hair touched.
Yeah, I like it when a woman runs her fingers through my hair.
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Old 04-14-2013, 07:45 PM
 
Location: DC
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Like my hair touched.
Oh come on, Raena, don't be shy. You mean you like your head stroked by the wonderful metallic tentacles of this thing? Amazon.com: Head Massager(colors may vary): Health & Personal Care
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