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Old 04-15-2013, 11:26 PM
 
Location: New York
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Lets say youre a mid 40s/50s female with kids and your son has friends over.

Do you ever fantasize about them or find them attractive?

Even in a professional setting?


I do hear of stories where a young guy (late teens/20s) will hook up with someones ma or an older woman, but im not sure of the frequency. If im perceiving it to be more common than it really is.
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Old 04-15-2013, 11:35 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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Lets say youre a mid 40s/50s female with kids and your son has friends over.

Do you ever fantasize about them or find them attractive?

Even in a professional setting?


I do hear of stories where a young guy (late teens/20s) will hook up with someones ma or an older woman, but im not sure of the frequency. If im perceiving it to be more common than it really is.
Are you enjoying a few beers right now, perchance?
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Old 04-16-2013, 01:36 AM
 
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I'm late 30s and I would go about 10 years younger at most. I find younger men attractive, but I think a bigger gap than 10 years would be too much.
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Old 04-16-2013, 05:16 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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The other way is certainly something I'm living with. I'm 34 and have alot of interest from 18-28 girls.
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Old 04-16-2013, 07:16 AM
 
Location: NY
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I cannot speak for women, but I know at 35 that there is a limit to how young of a woman I feel any urges of attraction for. I find myself referring to very young women (into early 20's) as "kids." Not that they are children, but they look so young that romantic feelings for them are off-putting.

I am just getting old.
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Old 04-16-2013, 07:26 AM
 
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Well, I am in my early 40s and my child is only 8... so by the time I am in my mid 40s we are talking about 11-12 year-olds, so.... no way!

But in the spirit of the thread, no, I don't find younger men attractive in that fashion. I like men my age or older because I have more in common with them. And when it reaches a point where the guy can biologically be my son, I just can't help but see them in that light and there is no attraction at all--like another poster said. They are "kids" to me.
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Old 04-16-2013, 07:36 AM
 
Location: Houston area
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Why? Are you looking to hook up with an older woman?
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Old 04-16-2013, 09:08 AM
 
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They look really nice (as long as they are adults) but we wouldn't have as much in common as someone my own age.
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Old 04-16-2013, 09:22 AM
 
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"Lets say youre a mid 40s/50s female with kids and your son has friends over.

Do you ever fantasize about them or find them attractive?

Even in a professional setting?


I do hear of stories where a young guy (late teens/20s) will hook up with someones ma or an older woman, but im not sure of the frequency. If im perceiving it to be more common than it really is."
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Old 04-16-2013, 09:24 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Yes. I find just physical looks...around 20 years old with a ripped bod (but before they get all that rough skin and hair in weird places and that strange man smell) to be the most attractive.

I would never get involved with a 20 year-old, though. They are like big dumb puppies. LOL!
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