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I have trouble meeting single women. Almost every women that i meet is either has a bf, or married. I tried going to concerts, bars/clubs, and i tried going to stores. I keep encounter taken women. I stop going to clubs and bars because it will be mostly taken women doing their girls night out, or it will be a lot of drunks there looking for a quickie. I just joined a sporting club where they do all kinds of sports. I have some luck at meeting single, but they have too many male friends. I would have to work twice as hard to get them to like me. What else can i do to meet more single women?
Well, not obsessing about it would be a good start. Get involved in activities that interest you, mean something to you, or (even better) help other people (i.e. volunteering). This is how you meet people who you will most likely have things in common with, and people who actually care about doing good in the world (as in the case of volunteering). JMHO.
A lot of somewhat decent women are likely going to be taken. Otherwise, they might be telling you they are taken if they aren't interested.
I always go out with a couple of guy friends. I can always say one of them is my bf if things with someone approaches me that I am not interested in get a little weird (happens almost every time I go out).
Most of the single women I know, approach men themselves-clear indicator they are single and interested.
I have trouble meeting single women. Almost every women that i meet is either has a bf, or married. I tried going to concerts, bars/clubs, and i tried going to stores. I keep encounter taken women. I stop going to clubs and bars because it will be mostly taken women doing their girls night out, or it will be a lot of drunks there looking for a quickie. I just joined a sporting club where they do all kinds of sports. I have some luck at meeting single, but they have too many male friends. I would have to work twice as hard to get them to like me. What else can i do to meet more single women?
You have an excuse for every scenario, don't you?
You found a good source of single women - sports clubs. My experience agrees. But you don't want any competition? Too bad, so sad. Get out there and compete. If you have to work twice as hard, then work twice as hard. If it's too much trouble then maybe you don't deserve to find someone?
Most decent women are going to be taken while they're young...often no later than their early-to-mid 20s. Sorry. Many decent people of both genders tend to get snatched up quick.
But it's a big world out there. There's still plenty of decent single women out there who are in their late 20s and 30s. They often tend to hang out with their single friends. Just keep putting yourself out there and get social with things that truly interest you. Try not to give off a vibe that you're "doing this activity" or "taking this class" so that you can meet women. They will sense that.
Your location may also matter. Socially conservative areas tend to have fewer singles.
I have trouble meeting single women. Almost every women that i meet is either has a bf, or married. I tried going to concerts, bars/clubs, and i tried going to stores. I keep encounter taken women. I stop going to clubs and bars because it will be mostly taken women doing their girls night out, or it will be a lot of drunks there looking for a quickie. I just joined a sporting club where they do all kinds of sports. I have some luck at meeting single, but they have too many male friends. I would have to work twice as hard to get them to like me. What else can i do to meet more single women?
Sorry Bro.
I think all of them being taken is some kind of woman thing. Like, if they don't have a boyfriend people will look at them funny.
I think if you meet the right gal she will dump her guy and come after you.
This happens. I have had it happen more than one time to me. The girl will say something like, " I broke up with my boyfriend."
That is your invitation to ask her out.
You can say, "Finally!! So you are free Saturday then so we can go out."
Are they really taken or do you assume they are mostly taken? I ask because I am single, but for some reason people just assume I am married (I don't wear a ring or anything). It's the strangest thing. For what it's worth, if the person assuming is a man, I see no ring on his finger, and I find him attractive, I correct him. Anyone else, I don't bother correcting.
Most high quality females are taken. My son became infatuated with this one attractive and bright female. He's a good looking kid and thought that all woman are available. He was really getting stuck on this woman...Finally she revealed "I have a boy friend"...I explained to the kid...."The first bold question you have to ask of a woman is if she is single or not"
Also I see young woman who are pushing strollers in my neighborhood. They are middle or upper middle class and they have husbands who are professional...and they are all good looking strong and intelligent females. Yes- most of the time the best go first.
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