Is Dating actually pretty simple? (lesbian, how to, girls, kid)

[Rhenzanite]

Originally Posted by Frihed89

What are undesirable consequences of sleeping with a woman (or man)on the first date, you may ask?

1. Because a woman who does this often suffers from personality issues that will make her a poor match for a long-term relationship

2. It is a reasonably good indication she is promiscuous and will not be faithful in a long-term relationship.

3. She is more likely to pass on STDs.

4. Sex is not a firm foundation for a long-term relationship.

5. More?

Yes, but the man who sleeps with that woman is perfectly fine? Why is there such a double standard? Maybe HE'S the one who is more likely to pass on STDs, maybe HE has personality issues an he is definitely not suited for a long-term relationship. He's probably a promiscuous cheater.

Judging by the amount of people I know who are either married or in stable, LTRs even after sleeping together on the first date I'd say you're completely wrong.

[intelfan11315]

Originally Posted by JetJockey

Yes, but the man who sleeps with that woman is perfectly fine? Why is there such a double standard? Maybe HE'S the one who is more likely to pass on STDs, maybe HE has personality issues an he is definitely not suited for a long-term relationship. He's probably a promiscuous cheater.

Judging by the amount of people I know who are either married or in stable, LTRs even after sleeping together on the first date I'd say you're completely wrong.

Who cares when someone has sex?

[Rhenzanite]

Originally Posted by burgler09

Who cares when someone has sex?

Apparently, when a woman has sex she is promiscuous, passing on STDs and has emotional issues.

So, apparently it's everyone's business when she has sex.

The man is cool though, he can have as much sex as he wants.

[mattywo85]

Lets just say we complicate things more then we need too.

[Raena77]

Relationships are rough when you become boyfriend and girlfriend. Emotions, insecurities get in the way, misunderstandings...

[West of Encino]

The dating scene isn't as easy as it way prior to the 2000s. People have to go through all these hoops just to get a date.

[Inebriated Duck]

Originally Posted by West of Encino

The dating scene isn't as easy as it way prior to the 2000s. People have to go through all these hoops just to get a date.

Sure, but it's not going to change, so we have to roll with the changes.

[mattywo85]

Originally Posted by Raena77

Relationships are rough when you become boyfriend and girlfriend. Emotions, insecurities get in the way, misunderstandings...

I don't find relationships to be the point where it gets complicated, its either:

1) The sex, or
2) The finances

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by mattywo85

I don't find relationships to be the point where it gets complicated, its either:

1) The sex, or
2) The finances

Yes that comes in the picture also. Dating in my twenties was waaaaaay easier.

[mattywo85]

Originally Posted by Raena77

Yes that comes in the picture also. Dating in my twenties was waaaaaay easier.

Haha, I actually find it easier as I get older.