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So, women who would never consider dating you are damaged goods because they have kids and are divorced or single? Really?
Some people do consider people like me damaged goods. I am divorced and have a child from that failed marriage. My Ex left me. So here I am, a single mom. It is what it is and if some men won't date me because of it, that's their choice and preference. There are plenty of other men out there--usually also divorced--that understand and are more tolerant of a divorced mom.
I can't really undertand this incoherent garble, but I'll try to answer the best I can. I really don't care who women with kids date or who they don't want to date, that's not my problem or concern. But me personally, I won't date them.
It's not surprising that it sounds like incoherent garble to you since you do not know the difference between singulars and plurals within the English language. Sorry I had to call you on it, but any avid Internet poster should know better. As to the content of your post, you didn't answer the question. I don't take the question as to whether a person is someone you would date or not. A retired 75 year old school teacher is not someone you would date and that wouldn't make her damaged goods. I don't get how a single/divorced woman with kids is damaged goods...even if she would want to date you, although there are obviously many single/divorced women with kids who would not date you. Referring to these people as damaged goods is not something I can understand.
I suppose this sentiment can really be applied to anyone in this thread. Does a personal preference relegate a human being as damaged goods? As JJ mentioned earlier, if that's the case then everyone on the planet is damaged goods and that's just stupid.
I'll try to answer the best I can. I really don't care who women with kids date or who they don't want to date, that's not my problem or concern. But me personally, I won't date them.
I love how I caught your original post before you changed it. he he.
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Originally Posted by jillabean
Some people do consider people like me damaged goods. I am divorced and have a child from that failed marriage. My Ex left me. So here I am, a single mom. It is what it is and if some men won't date me because of it, that's their choice and preference. There are plenty of other men out there--usually also divorced--that understand and are more tolerant of a divorced mom.
That's the thing. There are a lot of single moms on this board and these guys know it. Yet, they set out to verbally harm...intentionally. The single moms here seem to be fine women. They're just people and most of them seem to be doing the best they can. I know a few single moms off line who are great people. I don't see how someone's dating preference matters at all when considering the value of these women as human beings. To be clear, I have no skin in the game other than an unwillingness to experience bystander shock. Screw that.
I'll try to answer the best I can. I really don't care who women with kids date or who they don't want to date, that's not my problem or concern. But me personally, I won't date them.
Why would a women I have kids with be damaged goods if they're MY kids? Im talking about a women who already has kids who are in the dating world. Try to keep up. And I would never have a "baby mama", that's so ghetto. low class and pathetic. Any women I have kids with would be my wife.
[quote=Braunwyn;29188671]It's not surprising that it sounds like incoherent garble to you since you do not know the difference between singulars and plurals within the English language. Sorry I had to call you on it, but any avid Internet poster should know better. As to the content of your post, you didn't answer the question. I don't take the question as to whether a person is someone you would date or not. A retired 75 year old school teacher is not someone you would date and that wouldn't make her damaged goods. I don't get how a single/divorced woman with kids is damaged goods...even if she would want to date you, although there are obviously many single/divorced women with kids who would not date you. Referring to these people as damaged goods is not something I can understand.
Lol, why would I be worried about 75 year old women? It's not for you to "get" who I choose to date. Agian I don't care if single moms want to date me or not, they are not desirable to me. I don't pursue women with kids, so I wouldn't know if they wanted to date me or not. I don't which part of that you're not able to understand.
I just let one loose last saturady, how about you?
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